"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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can you **** in the back seat?

El Payaso

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You are probably going to be having sex in your car 1% or less of the entire time that you use it.

It would be better to buy a car that is best suited for the other things that you use it for the other 99% of the time.

Buy something that will reliably get you to work, school, your business or whatever it is that will actually bring you money. You know, the same thing that you can eventually use to get your own place.

Having enough space in the back to have sex is just a plus but shouldn't be your priority.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Roober

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You can shag in any vehicle. Finding a location to park can be tricky. It's just a matter of how she trusts you. I've done parking lots and literally just pulled over on the side of the road (not a super busy road obviosuly) and told her to sit on my lap. I'll only bust a nut if it's in her car though, cause I dont want any possible messes in mine.
 

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Research your local laws on window tint carefully. In Illinois, where I live, I see people with tinted windows all the time. One would think it is legal, but no, not at all. Any tint on side windows is illegal. But the cops don't write tickets for window tint and a lot of people have it....which is exactly what they want, because it gives them an excuse to pull you over, typically late at night so they can sniff your breath for alcohol. If you were driving legally and had a legal car (no tint), then they do not have a valid reason to pull you over. Requiring police to have a reason to stop you exists because of your 4th Amendment Constitutional right against unreasonable searches. Trading your freedom for window tint is a dumb exchange, in my opinion, but it is exactly what the cops want you to do.
 

zekko

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My question is why would you want to have sex in the back seat?
That's something you do when you're a teenager, because you don't have any other choice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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