Yuma
Don Juan
Something tells me that challenge would be ridiculously fun...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Can you go out onto the field even if you've lost your voice?
- Thread starter Yuma
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lil hooligan
Don Juan
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Pretend to be a mute, get a friend / wingman to back up the story, something like you never spoke again when... w/e
here is a story from my friend
Okay, here's that no-talking-number-grab story thing.
I saw some hot girl walking past so I held eye contact till she looked away and than when she looked back I motioned for her to come over, she was kind of hesitant at first but did so anyway. When she came over I pretended she had an eye lash on her cheek and pretended to brush it away (Yeah, I couldn't think of anything and I had no idea what I was doing).
After that I just kind of ignored her and when she started to turn away I made a 'This girl won't shut up' expression and did the moving my hands to imitate someone talking lots and she laughed a bit. Next I pointed at the sky, made a kind of shrug to indicate a question (This was after RiverFire, lots of fireworks and that) and she said she liked it and managed to get some good photos (She had a pretty fancy looking camera).
I than looked her up and down and pointed at what she was wearing and gave an unapproving (Is that a word ?) "What the hell o_0" look, even though it was pretty hot, and she did the 'Oh no he didn't!' thing.
So, I just shrugged, pointed out at my friends and started to walk off but I turned around, grabbed her arm (Softly though, 'grab' makes it sound so violent, hah), pulled out a pen (I had a nice pink, Tupperware branded one in my pocket), pointed at my phone than my arm and she wrote down her name + number.
And I left, I was going to call her last night but forgot so I'll do so tonight.