I got a pretty big problem, I got to know some girl in a chatroom who happened to go to my school..we always chatted but never met and well in the course of time we passed each other by at school said hi n stuff and finally met each other in town when we were tipsy and well lately she had been goin for me..i was so sure..and i even asked her how she felt about the situation if she was only makin fun or what wassup and she told me the next day that she actually wanted it to become something serious..and when i had told her that i might go abroad she was sad about that and stuff...i finally kissed her and so did i a few other days and finally stayed over at her house (no sex though just doing stuff) and she still seemed really into me cause she said "I wanna have that every night from now on" and told me in the I might be there a lil more often in future...and when i had told her i was afraid of relationships she was like but thats the best condition for one 
and u know i was sooo sure i actually hooked up with her already and when i asked her two days later what wassup now and if she wanted a relationship she told me that she didnt..and i was really shocked and so i said aight ..sorry but thats not for me im cuttin contact..good luck..bye ...and the same day she wrote me on the net that she had cried..cause i mean so much to her and that she already missed me...but that she just didnt have a crush on me tho shes comfortable around me and thinks im really hot..and now we arranged that we gonna take a break for some time and then look what we gonna do...but she still said that she just couldnt imagine gettin a crush on me or bein in a relationship with me later on.......
Any advice how to make her have that missing crush?!I mean Im obviously not in the friends section with a girl I really like..so shouldnt my chances be good?But anyways I NEED helpful advice...
thx
and u know i was sooo sure i actually hooked up with her already and when i asked her two days later what wassup now and if she wanted a relationship she told me that she didnt..and i was really shocked and so i said aight ..sorry but thats not for me im cuttin contact..good luck..bye ...and the same day she wrote me on the net that she had cried..cause i mean so much to her and that she already missed me...but that she just didnt have a crush on me tho shes comfortable around me and thinks im really hot..and now we arranged that we gonna take a break for some time and then look what we gonna do...but she still said that she just couldnt imagine gettin a crush on me or bein in a relationship with me later on.......Any advice how to make her have that missing crush?!I mean Im obviously not in the friends section with a girl I really like..so shouldnt my chances be good?But anyways I NEED helpful advice...
thx