"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Can you give me some dating tips??

oppoichest

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Hi,

I'm new to the dating world not bring fresh just new.

I'd like to have some advice regarding dating somebody. I just want to know what should or shouldn't be performed about?

Can anyone help me to? Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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omega05

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Can you give a summary of yourself? Basic info like age/ height/race/ what you're doing with your life, where do you meet women first before asking how to date?
 

Mike32ct

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What she does or says during the first date means nothing.

You can only judge her interest level by how she acts at the END of the date.

Bad:

1. Walks fast to her car or keeps a lot of distance between the both of you (to avoid kissing you). Or gives you the cheek when you try to kiss her.

Good:

1. She lingers and looks you in the eye. Make out or lip kiss.
 
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