"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can you get lots of action just by approaching tons of girls?

SoSerene

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I just moved downtown a couple months ago, and now the weather is getting nice and the girls are out in droves wearing short clothing and slutty outfits. It's pretty nice I must admit. As someone who has stepped outside the box a bit the past year, actually asking out girls instead of relying on POF, friends of friends, and FB...I feel like it's a good opportunity.

So in theory, say during my daily errands 4x/week I approach 5 girls per outing. That's 20 girls per week. An average guy like me...let's say I get a number from 1/5 of them, figuring conservatively. That's 4 numbers a week and 16 per month. You add in a few girls here and there from online dating, and wouldn't you have a huge rotation of girls to choose from? Are any guys doing this or is this sort of a pipe dream/wishful thinking?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DragonBlood

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SoSerene said:
the girls are out in droves wearing short clothing and slutty outfits.
Girls that dress like that are looking to be hit on. 1/5 is conservative. Almost any girl will give you their number if they think your cool. Doesnt mean they follow up. Street pickups is a numbers game if you have the energy to chat up 20 girls a week you will definitely get some home.

My advice, why not cut the BS and try taking one on a day the second you meet her. This works for me if your getting IOI, why wait till later so she can flake?
 

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In theory, it can work.

But with more experience, I recommend that you eventually do less approaches and rely more on your gut instinct.

After a while, you'll be able to "feel" or "sense" which girls are likely to be responsive to you before you approach them. Then your game will become even more efficient.

I'm not taking about IOIs, but this feeling that you and a given girl are likely to "click." It's not foolproof or 100%, but it can eventually help you avoid large numbers of unnecessary rejections.

But for now, approach away and do what you gotta do.
 

SoSerene

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Mike32ct said:
In theory, it can work.

But with more experience, I recommend that you eventually do less approaches and rely more on your gut instinct.

After a while, you'll be able to "feel" or "sense" which girls are likely to be responsive to you before you approach them. Then your game will become even more efficient.
For sure, I wasn't suggesting that approaching every attractive girl between the ages of 18-35 was most efficient, but rather a "worst case scenario". For instance, if you have minimal game and don't preselect your approaches well you should be able to get at least 1/5 numbers.

My track record has been about 1/3 girls over a small sample, so I was thinking with my current skill set long-run my bottom end would be 1/5 girls and top end maybe 2/5 or something like that.

I guess my point is that people spend so much time analyzing one girl whether she is interested or not blah blah (myself included) when in reality if you just put in the work you can get tons of options to the point where you aren't desperate at all if one girl decides to flake. So I was wondering if guys have done this amount of volume, which really isn't unreasonable, and had tons of plates spinning at once.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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In a word - Yes. I've always had more success in the summer. People are in better moods because of the weather. I also live in NY so the city is packed full of chicks dressed like wh0res all summer long.
 

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it's what i do all the time and yes, it pays off
 
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