"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can you ever read much into a text?

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Is it possible to read too much into a text?

I feel that obviously if you're trying to set up a follow up date or dates/meet ups and it's like your 4th or 5th meeting but you dont want to go straight into the 'hey lets meet up at so and so time etc' as it may come across needy or desperate especially if you did the same thing last week.

if you try a slightly slower tactic of asking how she is first 'hey you, how you feeling today?'

and she responds with 'Hi, been crazy busy lately! just got back from my brothers graduation, how are you?'

is the fact she's mentioned that she's been crazy busy a prelude for her to say she won't be able to meet up?

i just sense, if i ask her out she'll just say she's busy and will let me know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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