"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can you ever get to a point in life where you don't even have to try but you still score?

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Outside of superb fame like being a celebrity.

It seems like so many guys on here are putting in the work by either getting on online dating sites or cold approaching. Although a lot of these guys will lie through their teeth, the truth is they are still trying hard to some degree because they set up an online dating profile or cold approached a random woman.

I always wonder if a man ever gets to a point in his life where the returns on self-improvement are so good and so fruitful that he doesn't even have to try to get laid. Decent looking to hot girls just happen for him and he doesn't even try or have any intentions of getting laid.

Can a man if he focuses on self-improvement such as:

1. Getting jacked or fit

2. Getting wealthy (minimum of six figures, ideally more)

3. Advancing in his career or his business

Ever get to a point where he doesn't even have to try with women?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've had it happen to me seldomly and seen it happen with friends who are not fat, but also not in shape. So much more goes in to it then getting jacked. Get jacked and healthy for yourself not for women, that is needy
 
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