"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can you Enable SSL for sosuave forums

evan12

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Most social websites now are SSL enabled which mean no body can read what you are browsing even if they intercept your communication because of encryption, can you guys enable SSL on don juan forums?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And the reason you want to do this is what exactly? Most people usually ask about this so they can browse the site while at work. I have news for you. Networking and security appliances these days can still inspect your web browsing which is going over their network even if it is using SSL.
 

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I work with data security in both law enforcement and the private side. BetterCallSaul is right, workplaces can see what you are doing on their internal networks if they really want to. Even with SSL enabled. That's the bad news. The good news is, the I.T. staff do not have time to look at all that all the time. So you would need to be targeted by a manager who asks the I.T. staff to look at your traffic in order for them to know what sites you go to and what you post/read.

Now on the law enforcement side of the line, we can do a lot too. Powers vary based on if you are engaged in criminal activities or just a civil case (like a woman divorcing you). In law enforcement our God powers are only on those doing child porn or terrorist related activities.

PM me if you want to ask some specific questions. But bottom line, I don't see where SSL on Sosuave would really help anything.. But I could always be wrong..
 

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Hi guys,
Networking and security appliances these days can still inspect your web browsing which is going over their network even if it is using SSL.
I appreciate your response , but no body can intercept SSL pages and see what is user doing , the only thing visible from SSL enabled websites are their domain. That is why all social media websites and banks are SSL , you can safely browse them even from public networks and nobody can know what is your password even if they get that data packets.
The only way to decrepit the content is to install same SSL certificate on your proxy.

That is why I see it as a big benefit to have it SSL enabled , at that time you dont care where you are opening it even if somebody is snooping they cant really see what you are doing beside the fact you are on this domain browsing .
If you think otherwise I really would like to see the source because I work in IT too and so far https websites considered safe way to communicate with server without being monitored from someone .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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