"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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okay, I'm guessing this is going to sound fukked up. Mainly because it sounds fukked to me.

Okay this is the first time I ever mesured how much I eat.

Today was actually a fairly big day. But it mesured up to 435calories...

so actually today was a pretty decent eating day. Normally I eat around what I ate today or under.

SO... since this is sort of messed up. I can eat tons of food. I know this, I'm just never really hungry or care to eat.

I probably average 400 calories, maybe 300.

So how bad is this. Could this be the reason I can't lose my weight or gain muscle?

So I have some serious questions.

I was considereing cutting. So to cut would I start at 2000+ like DIESEL recomends, or should I start at 1600?

I know I can eat a lot of food, but I don't know if I can handle a lot of food at a constant rate.and 2000 plus sounds like a on to me.

On average if I'm good I eat 1 meal a day. So switching to 4 meals might really be hard. Is it good for me?

I've been eating this way for at least a year. More like all of my life.

This could also explain why I'm strong but I can't last long? Sound right?

By no means am I skinny, but I really think this sounds unhealthy, maybe i'm wrong?

I don't Know that much about it.

My final question is. Should I take supplements now? I mean some of them are appetite suppresents, thats probably the last thing I need.

Whey Protien I think is okay. But the other two that were mentioned in my other post SUPPLEMENTS. are they okay?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There are so many things wrong with your diet and what you think you know about nutrition that I can't spend my time replying. Do yourself a favor and purchase the book "The Sport Nutrition Guidebook" by Nancy Clark, M.D.

You'll learn everything you need to know about nutrition and how to achieve your goals. It's written by Nancy Clark who is a M.D. and a registered dietician.
 

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I don't pretend to know anything about diets. Everything I know is what I hear. for the most part I eat when i'm hungry.
 

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I'm not bagging on you. I can see you don't know much about nutrition. That's why I recommended that book to you. I think you would gain so much from reading it. It will educate you on proper nutrition. You'll learn how to eat well and properly fuel your body.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fitday is pretty cool. I just started using it. I never knew how my calories broke down each day. It's pretty interesting. I've been doing it for about 3 weeks. I'm gonna take my averages to my nutritionist next week and see what she thinks of my calorie breakdown. See if anything needs to be improved.

You can check out my journal if your curious.

My Fit Day Journal
 

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I seriously doubt you're eating that few cals a day. You're probably adding it wrong or leaving out things like soda, milk, and random snacks. 400 cals is a single small meal. Even anorexic girls eat more than that.
 

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I seriously doubt you're eating that few cals a day. You're probably adding it wrong or leaving out things like soda, milk, and random snacks. 400 cals is a single small meal. Even anorexic girls eat more than that.
I triple checked that... I might just have had a low day or something.

I don't eat much more then what I ate today. Sometimes even less. Since we don't have soda in our fridge, I'm not adding that, and we don't drink milk, [for some odd reason we still buy it? It just sits and spoil, what a shame.]

Anyway. I'm keeping a journal like the one person said. Thats what I used to mesure it FitDay... maybe it was just a fluke.? Still WTF.

~Capi

Thanks for the book, I'll look into it.

EDIT---

400 cals is a single small meal.
Sicne you put it that way I really don't eat more then a meal a day... the only thing is. I would think at such a deprevation I'd be loosing mass of some sort. Muscle or fat. But really I'm not. I'm more on the fat side then skinny.

But no one answered my question. SHould i jump back up to 2000 cals or should I try and gradually move back up.?
 

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Take your weight and multiply it by 12. That's your maintenance. If you eat more than that, you'll either put on fat, or if you workout, 200 of those extra calories should go to formation of muscle. If you eat less than that, you should loose weight.

If you eat not enough food, as in 400 calories a day, you'll be counter productive. You're body will go into starvation mode and feed off of muscle...which you don't want to happen. So if you're trying to loose weight, I would eat less than 500 calories below maintenance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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okay I calculated my weight using your scale of *12 so i came up with around 2000-2100

so eating at about 1700cal would be a good idea for cutting? and 2150-2200 would be good for a bulking?

I can't thank you people enough. Trying to figure all this out is like trying to drink a river out of a straw, Just too much of an info-overload... and this are of life, diet and exercise are really almost taboo in society for the most part.

I'm also considering visiting a dietician[sp?]? would that be the right person to see... or should I got to a nutritionist[sp?] or someone?

Thank you very much

~Capi
 

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Sazuki I tried that site, but it requires my comp to understand .xml files... which is Microsoft Office or some other special gyzmo I don't have...

I read your cutting guide. I really liked it...

BUT like I said... eating 400 cals seems natural to me i've been doing it so long. I guess it really started with the hospitalizations. At first thier food was good. At least Marilac was good, but they were LT anyway. but the ST hospitals, there food was crappy. So I'd just not eat the food. I never was too hungry. Mainly because food wasn't the biggest thing on my mind. That and if you get hungry and its not time to eat.... you don't eat. So my body adapted I guess... I'm used to going weeks without eating and not even realizing it really... Just a bad habit I guess...

So i think I'm going to go with a 1600-1700 calorie deficiency, mainly because it will be easier for me to adapt, and sencond I hate cardio like the devil... I can sprint, but long-distance sucks...
 

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And cardio also increases metabolism. Just so you know
Okay. I've been meaning to get out. Maybe I'll take some jogs around the area...
 

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I don't think you should worry about cardio at this point. Just eat more than 400 cals a day...

Don't jump up to 2000, gradually get there.

And why did you go to the hospital? If you're diabetic or have something else we should know about, tell us.
 

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And why did you go to the hospital? If you're diabetic or have something else we should know about, tell us.
oh lol... I've never been to a hospital hospital... well sort of. Not for injuries or anything carnal in nature.

I really like that word carnal... even though it was a lttle out of context I just felt like using it... sort of work... meaning I don't have anything physical that is wrong with me except a slight case of myopia, but hell I hope that doesn't affect my diet plans...:p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oh and I take fluvoximine 200mg a day at 2x intervals.
 

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lol they are taking me off of that pretty soon... I just remembered when they put me on Lithium... I went impotent:eek: . that scared the **** out of me... I couldn't even get a boner. After a few months I took myself off AMO. I went through like a days withdrawl... but my **** was good again...

man those were some good ol days....
 

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I'm confused with the charts what is Basal? metabolism and all that right? why does it say I'm burning 3000 cals? WTF?
 

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Dude, you are eating way too few calories. If you eat that little your body will just go into starvation mode and slow your metabolism way down.

If you want to cut up here is what to do:

1) Eat around 2000 calories a day
2) Exercise for around 30 minutes 5x a week doing something intense like running or stair climbing
3) Lift weights three times a week for high reps with short rest periods or around a minute
4) Stick to lean protein, vegetables, fruit, olive oil, flax oil, and limit carbs to wholegrains and cereals.
5) Eat regularly like 6 times a day and before bed have something like cottage cheese
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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