This thread is more about whether or not it's possible to be attracted to women you don't currently find attractive, as opposed to determining whether myself or others are living in a fantasy land about who we are naturally attracted to. Your statements reaffirm my point though - let's say you are right and I am living in a fantasy land about who I'm attracted to and able to get.... so then what's the solution? The only solution I can think of is to try to figure out how to enjoy dating less attractive women, right? And that is exactly my question: Is it possible and if so how? Because as I said, I've tried and it hasn't worked so far.
I’ve had the same issue too.
But heck you can enjoy it. As long as it’s a women who looks average, nothing abnormal or crazy, it should be no problem. All the guys in here would move mountains to sleep with a 30+ something average looking girl, and you can’t enjoy a 6/10 or 7/10? Your standards are too high for your condition.
All I'm looking for is an even match; if we were out on a date, people wouldn't say "Wow, how did HE get HER" or "Wow, how did SHE get HIM?" But if I can't get that, for whatever reason, I'm trying to figure out how to enjoy less attractive women (especially to practice and gain experience with), which is what this post is about.
The world has changed for you to get an even match. You have go lower. The young good looking ones are scooped up early by the top tier guys.
Now I know tons of guys are going to come on and say I don’t know what I’m talking about because they get paid to sleep with HB 9+ actresses and models.
Top CEOs and politicians and directors and actors have trouble meeting and sleeping with HB 9/10, but sosuave members can. Rock on!
