"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can you believe this!?

Driggs

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I don't understand how she was like lets have baby so immersed in the relationship etc then suddenly trying to jump away.
She's fvcked in the head. That's why. Don't even bother analyzing it farther than that, spend your brainpower on something more important like pulling balls of dryer lint out of your dog's butthole.

This is why I feel that it's important to not even look at a woman's actions-- look at how YOU feel.

If you feel consistently sh1tty because of some b1tch, bail ASAP because it's only going to get worse. It may hurt to cut that tumor out but if you don't it will only grow.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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john1234

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S**t has hit the Fan! was going out around my area when, suddenly I saw her across the road with some good looking guy. She saw me first but I carried on moving,then looked at them and then looked away and quickly raced off(I couldn't believe it so soon) my stomach turned.

Next thing I know my sms had started to blow up! I didn't respond. She says how she made mistakes and sends all sorts of confusing sms (whilst she is with the guy I guess). She says how she misses me and changes to babbling on about Okay lets be friends then babbling on about I miss you and need you to call me.

I have her on barred list, this is where it gets interesting. Some time later I was on the way to the food shop and then I receive a call, I answer it thinking it was a normal call, but no it was her! Crying and that.


Honestly don't know what to think or say anymore, what do you think has brought this on and any words!?
 

Albatross953

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Yes, we know exactly what's happening. She bat shot crazy!
Leave her alone!!
 
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