“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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Ok my LTR has come back after dumping me before she left for her abroad ceremony 3 weeks ago. The Day she came back she started arguments I just left in the night because she winds me up. Next day she tried the same thing and we argued )or she argued) and I kinda talked her down. She perfectly knows I am out of her gaff in 2days time but yet argues pointless keeps on wishing me bad, doesn't want to do what is right and right me my reference letter! Wants me to move out on street with no where etc Keeps on saying how bad I am in the relationship and keeps on saying how I will never meet a woman like her, All the women I meet in the future will only want me for my money! I used her I never loved her.
Even though I say so my self, I am a very nice calm guy, never done wrong to no body.

Tonight she dresses so sexy with a v.short belt skirt says she going out with her friend (I say okay have fun). She says I should look after her kid while she goes out.I have never seen her dress like that,on the way out she says I look like a prostitute don't I?

Thing is when she cam back from abroad I spotted a ring on her finger and pulled her up on that, she claimed her mother gave it to her? tonight before she went out the ring was not there ?I pulled her up on that she claims its lost or some where? Also when she came back I don't know why but I asked her why she deleted me from Facebook, she Lied in my face and said she did not her account is hacked and she has no access to it, couple seconds later I open her laptop and Facebook is active so she clearly lied.

So tomorrow I am Guaranteed-definitely leaving! I believe she is a lying W*0re. She is only good for one thing and she put me through hell this weekend. It also is very difficult for me knowing that she is most likely f*** others and I just want out to heal.

She behaved like a stranger the last 2 days!

Since I knew her shes gone abroad 3times without me and Every time she goes abroad I check her Facebook when she's back and there is some guy always conversing with her on messages (maybe orbiter.)

I think I have been played or can some one tell me what her motive is or was? this **** doesnt make sense
 

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Dear John,
This is indeed a sad story...you picked a Slutt mate,bad luck...Move out,keep her for a plate until you broaden your social acquaintence.....never let anyone move in with you again unless you are happy to have a family with them,even then give it a couple of years!
 

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What a psycho. Good that you know what you have to do (rather than sitting and arguing with the good advice you are sure to receive...)
 

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Driggs said:
What a psycho. Good that you know what you have to do (rather than sitting and arguing with the good advice you are sure to receive...)
Yeah she kick me out on the street now and my new place is not ready for 48hrs.......what a b**ch
 

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john1234 said:
Yeah she kick me out on the street now and my new place is not ready for 48hrs.......what a b**ch
Fortunately I have moved in with my mate until my new place is ready.

If was as if she was trying to punish me some how!
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear John,
This is indeed a sad story...you picked a Slutt mate,bad luck...Move out,keep her for a plate until you broaden your social acquaintence.....never let anyone move in with you again unless you are happy to have a family with them,even then give it a couple of years!
:up:
 

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This story's real right..?

john1234 said:
Ok my LTR has come back after dumping me before she left for her abroad ceremony 3 weeks ago. The Day she came back she started arguments I just left in the night because she winds me up.
Dumping you off? It takes 2 to start an argument by the way...


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Next day she tried the same thing and we argued )or she argued) and I kinda talked her down. She perfectly knows I am out of her gaff in 2days time but yet argues pointless keeps on wishing me bad, doesn't want to do what is right and right me my reference letter! Wants me to move out on street with no where etc Keeps on saying how bad I am in the relationship and keeps on saying how I will never meet a woman like her, All the women I meet in the future will only want me for my money! I used her I never loved her.
Even though I say so my self, I am a very nice calm guy, never done wrong to no body.
She has your ego and dignity hooked like fish biting a fly... The manipulation levels... And you're still with her!? SHE'S GARBAGE! :confused:



john1234 said:
Tonight she dresses so sexy with a v.short belt skirt says she going out with her friend (I say okay have fun). She says I should look after her kid while she goes out.I have never seen her dress like that,on the way out she says I look like a prostitute don't I?
HER KID!? She goes out and dumps her responsibilities on you and just allow her...? Since she seems like the type that will pull the "Kidnapped my kid," you should have packed your bags and left as soon as she got back. I know I'm young, but If this type of disrespect and negligence ever happened I would be out of there so fast...

john1234 said:
Thing is when she cam back from abroad I spotted a ring on her finger and pulled her up on that, she claimed her mother gave it to her? tonight before she went out the ring was not there ?I pulled her up on that she claims its lost or some where? Also when she came back I don't know why but I asked her why she deleted me from Facebook, she Lied in my face and said she did not her account is hacked and she has no access to it, couple seconds later I open her laptop and Facebook is active so she clearly lied.
Who cares? It's already pretty clear she's lost all interest and respect for you. What're you trying to save here?


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So tomorrow I am Guaranteed-definitely leaving! I believe she is a lying W*0re. She is only good for one thing and she put me through hell this weekend. It also is very difficult for me knowing that she is most likely f*** others and I just want out to heal.
Should have left that night when she dumped her kid on you, but this works too.


john1234 said:
She behaved like a stranger the last 2 days!

Since I knew her shes gone abroad 3times without me and Every time she goes abroad I check her Facebook when she's back and there is some guy always conversing with her on messages (maybe orbiter.)

I think I have been played or can some one tell me what her motive is or was? this **** doesnt make sense
Well that's what happens when she has zero interest in you, this is when they usually shows their true colors and they're either turn into a cold hearted b*tch or become an actually decent human being.

Her motive was that she's not interested and is treating you like dirt. There's no explanation or further detail even needed. Leave her, delete her number, delete/block her on of every social media, and don't even utter her name ever again. Take this time to improve yourself and absorb all of the knowledge and inner confidence you can get your hands on. I personally think this would be rock bottom for me, so this should be a turning point for you.
 

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This story's real right..?

Dumping you off? It takes 2 to start an argument by the way...

She has your ego and dignity hooked like fish biting a fly... The manipulation levels... And you're still with her!? SHE'S GARBAGE! :confused:

She

HER KID!? She goes out and dumps her responsibilities on you and just allow her...? Since she seems like the type that will pull the "Kidnapped my kid," you should have packed your bags and left as soon as she got back. I know I'm young, but If this type of disrespect and negligence ever happened I would be out of there so fast...



Who cares? It's already pretty clear she's lost all interest and respect for you. What're you trying to save here?


Should have left that night when she dumped her kid on you, but this works too.


Well that's what happens when she has zero interest in you, this is when they usually shows their true colors and they're either turn into a cold hearted b*tch or become an actually decent human being.

Her motive was that she's not interested and is treating you like dirt. There's no explanation or further detail even needed. Leave her, delete her number, delete/block her on of every social media, and don't even utter her name ever again. Take this time to improve yourself and absorb all of the knowledge and inner confidence you can get your hands on. I personally think this would be rock bottom for me, so this should be a turning point for you.


Well, she always comes crawling back to beg me in the end. She has broken and always comes back to beg,I know this!
However this time I will not/never agree.
 

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I have received a few calls from her which I did not answer. I feel there is no point talking with her.


Some how I performed outstanding at work last week in the mist of all the adversity!(finding a place etc.) This made me realize that I am a lot stronger than I thought.

The other guy said something about rock bottom! I think I am far from that and I'm not showing signs of that ATM.
I am still oozing with enthusiasm but I do miss the Kid and I don't know how to handle that situation as we did build a relationship.

I hope I will cope OK.
 

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john1234 said:
I am still oozing with enthusiasm but I do miss the Kid and I don't know how to handle that situation as we did build a relationship.

I hope I will cope OK.
That kid is not yours. You should actually be glad that's the case, trust me.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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amoka said:
That kid is not yours. You should actually be glad that's the case, trust me.
I need help..as she's calling me again and again. Says that the kid misses me.

I feel responsible and almost broke NC because of this should I?
 

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john1234 said:
I need help..as she's calling me again and again. Says that the kid misses me.

I feel responsible and almost broke NC because of this should I?
Why is she using the kid as a bait to get you. And more importantly, why do you "feel responsible"? And what is it that you're feeling "responsible" for? Why is she troubling you? She can't find her baby daddy? Dude, I would runnnnn from this woman as far away as I could. You only have yourself to blame if you contact her and things start going south again. Or worse.
 

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amoka said:
Why is she using the kid as a bait to get you. And more importantly, why do you "feel responsible"? And what is it that you're feeling "responsible" for? Why is she troubling you? She can't find her baby daddy? Dude, I would runnnnn from this woman as far away as I could. You only have yourself to blame if you contact her and things start going south again. Or worse.
I dunno, the kid and I were pretty close ....and the way she sent the message made me feel guilty . I dunno why she's troubling me today.
 

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Same woman?

Is this the same woman you talked about here, here, here, here, here, and host of your other posts? If she is STOP wasting others time here considering the host of advises/suggestions provided to you in those threads. If she not the same woman, then you seriously have a HUGE problem need to reevaluate yourself and the kinds of women you attract. Either those or your are a big time TROLL.
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear John,
This is indeed a sad story...you picked a Slutt mate,bad luck...Move out,keep her for a plate until you broaden your social acquaintence.....never let anyone move in with you again unless you are happy to have a family with them,even then give it a couple of years!

brutal but honest, I am sharing this opinion by Scaramouche...
 

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Sounds to me like he could very easily have her totally wrapped around his finger. Her actions are telling him that he is dominating her, putting her in her place with distance, and she enjoys that.
 

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Amoka,I have listened to folks advice on here.Why do you think I made sure she didn't get Preggo! And I did not invest in the relationship! Actually when I saw things going down south I quickly got a job, saved up and now have cash to plan ahead. I monitored her and although I did not catch her in the act I saw how to spot them Red flags. She kept a pattern which I was cracking. Basically as the OP said she is a S**t! I know the kid aint mine and I am also glad too!phew.




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Sounds to me like he could very easily have her totally wrapped around his finger. Her actions are telling him that he is dominating her, putting her in her place with distance, and she enjoys that.
:confused:

Ah.....
 
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john1234 said:
Yeah she kick me out on the street now and my new place is not ready for 48hrs.......what a b**ch
Could be worse. Ironically, this could be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Sadly, men are not taught to screen women and this is how many of us learn.

Hang in there, you will be victorious as long as you don't repeat this mistake.
 

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origin138 said:
Could be worse. Ironically, this could be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Sadly, men are not taught to screen women and this is how many of us learn.

Hang in there, you will be victorious as long as you don't repeat this mistake.
Certainly will look out for those red flags.
Yeah, i'm trying to hang in there and that is what I tell myself when I'm feeling down, because I don't understand how she was like lets have baby so immersed in the relationship etc then suddenly trying to jump away.


The thing is I left some items in her place but don't want to break NC to get them! I have a gut feeling like the previous one that she is gonna get some guy (1week after break up) and try and move him in with her! what ever happens I have the gut feeling that it may breakdown and she will start to hassle me again at some point!
 
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