"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can you believe this!?

Driggs

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I don't understand how she was like lets have baby so immersed in the relationship etc then suddenly trying to jump away.
She's fvcked in the head. That's why. Don't even bother analyzing it farther than that, spend your brainpower on something more important like pulling balls of dryer lint out of your dog's butthole.

This is why I feel that it's important to not even look at a woman's actions-- look at how YOU feel.

If you feel consistently sh1tty because of some b1tch, bail ASAP because it's only going to get worse. It may hurt to cut that tumor out but if you don't it will only grow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john1234

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S**t has hit the Fan! was going out around my area when, suddenly I saw her across the road with some good looking guy. She saw me first but I carried on moving,then looked at them and then looked away and quickly raced off(I couldn't believe it so soon) my stomach turned.

Next thing I know my sms had started to blow up! I didn't respond. She says how she made mistakes and sends all sorts of confusing sms (whilst she is with the guy I guess). She says how she misses me and changes to babbling on about Okay lets be friends then babbling on about I miss you and need you to call me.

I have her on barred list, this is where it gets interesting. Some time later I was on the way to the food shop and then I receive a call, I answer it thinking it was a normal call, but no it was her! Crying and that.


Honestly don't know what to think or say anymore, what do you think has brought this on and any words!?
 

Albatross953

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Yes, we know exactly what's happening. She bat shot crazy!
Leave her alone!!
 
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