"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vice smh @ your location and post. Like something I just read here, an alpha male is a beta male who learned to become an alpha male you did not know how to bag dimes at age 8. You merely sound as if you just read every post in this forum. Your hubris is astounding and if i saw you IRL I'd take out two pairs of adult sock 'em boppers and challenge you to a duel.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would argue that being a DJ is 100% skill and attitude. Nothing about looks, income, living situation, age, or anything like that.

I pulled a couple of women back in 2002 when I was living in my car.

Now, does that mean that looks, income, etc., don't matter? Of course not, they matter a lot. However, I don't think they matter with regard to "being a DJ."

Think of it as analogous to being "tough" or being "funny." I'm not saying that being a DJ is the same as being tough or funny, I'm just saying that they're all essentially 100% mental with some skills thrown in. Does being tough or funny have anything to do with your income, age, looks, or anything like that? No, they really don't. They have to do with your attitude, your beliefs, your skills.. same with DJ.

Granted, a DJ who is super hot and rich will be more successful than one who is broke and living in a basement, but they're still both DJs.
 
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