well expounding on the business analogy....
is your employer trust worthy? yes and no.
if you've done a good job and hit a rough patch he's not going to fire. he'll give you some time to get out of your funk.
but if you start doing a bad job, all the time and there's no end in site to your miserable performance, will he fire you? yes.
so he lives up to his end of the bargain to the degree that you live up to your end of the bargain.
good business relationships work when your employer is paying you what you think is fair and your return results that they think are fair for what they are paying. sometimes the business is under high demands and you work harder to compensate. sometimes you're in a funk, and they cut you some slack. but both of you expect that overall a balance will be maintained.
if you start feeling like your busting your ass ALL the time and aren't being paid in relative proportion, and some other employer comes along offering you a job with fair pay for fair effort expended, are you going to jump ship for that other job? yep.
now some employers will screw you over and bleed every ounce of blood sweat and tears out of you and toss you aside when you've burned out. these are bad employers. and some employees, no matter how much you pay them will constantly b*tch and complain that they arent appreciated enough.
are women trust worthy? depends.
if you hook up with a woman where you both meet each others needs, and you are both mature and contribute equally to the relationship, then it will be a happy arrangement.
sure there will be times when one is giving more than the other. there will be times where one is more demanding than the other. there will be times where one is in a funk more than the other.
but at the end of the day, as long as balance is maintained you're fine.
are there chics out there who bleed you dry and no matter how much you kill yourself to please will never be appreciative for your efforts? yes. Are there chics that will toss you aside when you burn out, or a better deal comes along? yes.
but the same goes for men. I mean, a lot of guys tend not to end relationships, they just go out and have a fling. lots of women ahve been just as screwed over by men as men by women.
so at the end of the day all you have to ask yourself is whether or not there is balance. is she putting in as much as you are. this is called maturity.
if people are putting excessive demands on each other, or people feel they aren't getting back what they are putting in... then ya, you can't trust the woman (or man) really, because they are just sticking around until something better comes around.
J