"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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can we talk about the hair flicking flirt thing....

Jaun_Don

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Is this a flirtation signal? because I get it a lot and it confuses me, a date I had last night was constantly brushing her hair away from her face or touching and twirling it or adjusting it (you know preening)while she was talking with me and another girl I know who is a friend of the room mate I had a thing for did a lot of pushing her hair to the side while she was alone talking to me today and the room mate STILL does it a lot...(I noticed that she does it when I put my fingers in my hair as well)

So my question is how do you really know if this is a flirty signal or otherwise please?.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sometimes it really is just a habit or she just has long hair. Sometimes its an IOI.

On the list of IOIs, its a weaker one though.
 

Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by HereToImprove
Sometimes it really is just a habit or she just has long hair. Sometimes its an IOI.

On the list of IOIs, its a weaker one though.
cool can you provide the other ones please?

I don't know to me it seems like obvious flirting signals I just wanted to get some other views.
 
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