"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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can we talk about the hair flicking flirt thing....

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Is this a flirtation signal? because I get it a lot and it confuses me, a date I had last night was constantly brushing her hair away from her face or touching and twirling it or adjusting it (you know preening)while she was talking with me and another girl I know who is a friend of the room mate I had a thing for did a lot of pushing her hair to the side while she was alone talking to me today and the room mate STILL does it a lot...(I noticed that she does it when I put my fingers in my hair as well)

So my question is how do you really know if this is a flirty signal or otherwise please?.
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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Sometimes it really is just a habit or she just has long hair. Sometimes its an IOI.

On the list of IOIs, its a weaker one though.
 
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Originally posted by HereToImprove
Sometimes it really is just a habit or she just has long hair. Sometimes its an IOI.

On the list of IOIs, its a weaker one though.
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cool can you provide the other ones please?

I don't know to me it seems like obvious flirting signals I just wanted to get some other views.
 
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