"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can we officially say I am the DJ or what?

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I swear on my game, that it is true. And to answer a few questions, I started having sex at 15 years old. Roses I know are kind of hard to play the game with, but it's always to try a long shot here and there.

The note can say anything you want, Normally I give her my number, My name and a place to meet, me, I don't tell her the name of the place, but just the address, normally a restaurant, a coffee shop, then take her somewhere else, just so when she gets there shes not thinking, **** not another expensive, date, rather more or less spending time to get to know her, and to get her more interested in you. Throws her off into thinking you are a lot more mysterious then you let on.

Payne

P.S. I will add alot more tonight, An ex is over, and we are chilling out. I'll be back on at around 11 pm my time. Peace
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think the note idea is strange because it still leaves you without confirmation so you just go to this mysterious place and wait for her to show up? Or do you wait for her to read the note in front of you and confirm that she will be there? Seems like a Highschool pickup but really doesn't apply to any situations i've ever been after HS (maybe college who knows?). If you dont have a car I could see this as being a useful tool but usually I just tell her a time, get her address and pick her a$$ up.
 

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**** think of anything I don't care the sky is the limits, Make up some stupid story like you have to goto a meeting, goto work, etc etc, Bobs your uncle.

Payne
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i don't believe a word of this. maybe i'd be slightly more inclined to believe you if you had said 47...or 23. anyway, what's the glory in banging that many hoes? must have been 80% uglies and hippos. quality over quantity my friend.
 

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Do you know how to speak english? My eyes bleed when i try to read what you wrote.
 

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Yes I speak english, Why the hell would you chew me up on this, you must have a problem, because I am trying to give more and more information here, Either take it and use it to your advantage, or leave it. Fact is buddy, either believe me or not, I really don't care. Once you start figuring out that my game works, and see the results for yourself maybe you will think back and be like, holy **** this guy is telling the truth.

Payne

By the way I added more.
 

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Yapper said:
i don't believe a word of this. maybe i'd be slightly more inclined to believe you if you had said 47...or 23. anyway, what's the glory in banging that many hoes? must have been 80% uglies and hippos. quality over quantity my friend.
I remember going through Thunder Bay to get some action. I turned around and told myself that the next time I was just going to go to Winnipeg, much better looking women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yea I admit thunder bay and be this **** hole for some girls, but you just have to know what you want. and NO 80% of them were not ugly. That's kind crud to say. Especially if you don't know anything about me, Yea a few of them were ugly I am not going to lie, I just wanted a piece of ass, and I got it. All the other girls were HB7.5 and higher. I do have high standards. and Morals. I have more now than I did before I met My girl. I'm just here now to give advice. And to try and help improve other peoples game. Either believe it or not, it is your choice and your choice alone.

Payne
 

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MissionX said:
Yes I speak english, Why the hell would you chew me up on this, you must have a problem, because I am trying to give more and more information here, Either take it and use it to your advantage, or leave it. Fact is buddy, either believe me or not, I really don't care. Once you start figuring out that my game works, and see the results for yourself maybe you will think back and be like, holy **** this guy is telling the truth.

Payne

By the way I added more.
Im not chewing you up, i just cant read what you posted with out constantly stumbling. Thats all...you have game? Awesome.
 
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