Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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I know racism sucks and all, and as an African dude I face plenty of it, but the whine has got to stop. Whether or not you face prejudice, there's nothing you can freaking do about it. Sure, for a while, it sucks and you feel emo about whatever perceived disadvantage you have because of your skin color, but eventually you learn to live with it, because there's NOTHING YOU CAN DO!
I think threads that ask for advice on how to game chicks of different races is fine, because that's asking practical advice. But crying about how one type of chick is prejudiced, or how your genes are keeping you a virgin, and whatever else, is just giving attention to an issue that can't be helped anyway. If anything, feeling disadvantaged, but getting some anyway, just makes you more proud to have improved. That's what this site is supposed to be about.
Mods, start by closing this thread. Knowing the d-bags on this forum, it will just start a flame war. I foresaw that outcome, but I think this needs to be said, for the sake of our sanity. If only we had mature DJs instead of KJs and virgins posting here, those who felt race was an issue could get advice on how to tackle it. Unfortunately, all race-related threads just end up attracting all the bigots who tells the offended party to "stop whining about your lack of game", and a flame war erupts.
THE WAY TO OVERCOME "RACISM":
DON'T FIT FREAKING STEREOTYPES!!!!!! If you're an asian male, and you're sad that all white chicks think you're a nerd that fixes computers, get yourself an athletic build, clothes WITHOUT VIDEO GAME REFERENCES ON THEM, and some style. I know so many asian males that bag more white chicks than NBA players.
If you're a black male who complains about not being taken seriously, or getting dirty looks, etc, STOP DRESSING GHETTO. Drop the overly baggy clothing, make sure you have a calm, friendly demeanor (very important, since the major gripe is that everyone thinks you're out to take advantage/rob them because of inner city stereotypes).
And above all, PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE! If you want Indian girls, go freaking game as many Indian girls as you want. You'll soon discover that the rules aren't any different. It was just your mind creating an illusion that these racial categories were important, and your game falling behind accordingly.
All girls are the same, and they all react to the same thing. White chicks would rather take a suave, confident black or asian guy over a mediocre white guy. Hell, depending on the chick, she could pick a suave, well-built Hispanic guy over a suave, well-built white guy. Race isn't that big an issue, and even if you feel it is, take comfort in the fact that you can't do a damn thing about it.
I will use myself as an example. I'm hardcore African. My friends always joke that I dissappear when you turn off the lights. I've hooked up with so many Asian and white chicks, even a couple of Jewish girls (and the 'status quo' is that those three groups are extremely anti-Black). You can't say its the city, because I live in a small university town that's less than 6% black (and all the blacks hang together anyway, with a small minority integrating in the rest of the school). To be honest, asian girls were always difficult, since they're notorious for sticking to their ethnicity, but once I accepted that these racial blockades weren't set in stone, and once I actually started approaching asian chicks, the results started rolling in. I can honestly say now that, out of all the racial groups, asians are the easiest for me to game, because I'm so comfortable around them.
Sorry about the gloating. I'm not trying to show off in anyway, because I have so much more to learn about the DJ lifestyle. I just want to impart some knowledge on this topic, so hopefully people will stop worrying about this issue that they CAN'T change, and start improving their game, appearance, build, etc.
I'm going to be flamed hardcore by some bigots for "beating a dead horse", but I feel that, despite the mass of race-related threads that pop up, no one ever gives a solution. It's always just a flame-war between a white guy who, I'll be entirely honest, can't really put himself in the shoes of any American minority (I mean, c'mon, Caucasians are 60%+ of the population?), and the topic creator, a bitter minority who thinks crying on sosuave will help. Rather than scorn these beleaguered DJs, we should be offering advice, but I've never seen that happening. Hopefully, this thread will somehow alleviate that.
Hopefully this thread will be of some benefit to not just an individual poster, but the community as a whole. Mods, close this ASAP.
Merry Xmas.
I think threads that ask for advice on how to game chicks of different races is fine, because that's asking practical advice. But crying about how one type of chick is prejudiced, or how your genes are keeping you a virgin, and whatever else, is just giving attention to an issue that can't be helped anyway. If anything, feeling disadvantaged, but getting some anyway, just makes you more proud to have improved. That's what this site is supposed to be about.
Mods, start by closing this thread. Knowing the d-bags on this forum, it will just start a flame war. I foresaw that outcome, but I think this needs to be said, for the sake of our sanity. If only we had mature DJs instead of KJs and virgins posting here, those who felt race was an issue could get advice on how to tackle it. Unfortunately, all race-related threads just end up attracting all the bigots who tells the offended party to "stop whining about your lack of game", and a flame war erupts.
THE WAY TO OVERCOME "RACISM":
DON'T FIT FREAKING STEREOTYPES!!!!!! If you're an asian male, and you're sad that all white chicks think you're a nerd that fixes computers, get yourself an athletic build, clothes WITHOUT VIDEO GAME REFERENCES ON THEM, and some style. I know so many asian males that bag more white chicks than NBA players.
If you're a black male who complains about not being taken seriously, or getting dirty looks, etc, STOP DRESSING GHETTO. Drop the overly baggy clothing, make sure you have a calm, friendly demeanor (very important, since the major gripe is that everyone thinks you're out to take advantage/rob them because of inner city stereotypes).
And above all, PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE! If you want Indian girls, go freaking game as many Indian girls as you want. You'll soon discover that the rules aren't any different. It was just your mind creating an illusion that these racial categories were important, and your game falling behind accordingly.
All girls are the same, and they all react to the same thing. White chicks would rather take a suave, confident black or asian guy over a mediocre white guy. Hell, depending on the chick, she could pick a suave, well-built Hispanic guy over a suave, well-built white guy. Race isn't that big an issue, and even if you feel it is, take comfort in the fact that you can't do a damn thing about it.
I will use myself as an example. I'm hardcore African. My friends always joke that I dissappear when you turn off the lights. I've hooked up with so many Asian and white chicks, even a couple of Jewish girls (and the 'status quo' is that those three groups are extremely anti-Black). You can't say its the city, because I live in a small university town that's less than 6% black (and all the blacks hang together anyway, with a small minority integrating in the rest of the school). To be honest, asian girls were always difficult, since they're notorious for sticking to their ethnicity, but once I accepted that these racial blockades weren't set in stone, and once I actually started approaching asian chicks, the results started rolling in. I can honestly say now that, out of all the racial groups, asians are the easiest for me to game, because I'm so comfortable around them.
Sorry about the gloating. I'm not trying to show off in anyway, because I have so much more to learn about the DJ lifestyle. I just want to impart some knowledge on this topic, so hopefully people will stop worrying about this issue that they CAN'T change, and start improving their game, appearance, build, etc.
I'm going to be flamed hardcore by some bigots for "beating a dead horse", but I feel that, despite the mass of race-related threads that pop up, no one ever gives a solution. It's always just a flame-war between a white guy who, I'll be entirely honest, can't really put himself in the shoes of any American minority (I mean, c'mon, Caucasians are 60%+ of the population?), and the topic creator, a bitter minority who thinks crying on sosuave will help. Rather than scorn these beleaguered DJs, we should be offering advice, but I've never seen that happening. Hopefully, this thread will somehow alleviate that.
Hopefully this thread will be of some benefit to not just an individual poster, but the community as a whole. Mods, close this ASAP.
Merry Xmas.
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