“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Can we get rid of this profanity filter?

dap

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The profanity filter on this site makes alot of posts unreadable. Besides, some threads on this form go into detail about having sex, etc, and whoever can read about that can see a curse word. People just find ways around the filter to get out what they are trying to say anyway. If you absolutely must, maybe just turn it on for the highschool forum? It would really make communication much easier on this forum.

Edit: I've read past threads about this, and people have general said that the admin(s) do not want profanity on this board. Well, obviously this method is not working. Perhaps we can try something else.

Thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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like that last thread about this (which was like 3 days ago)... skilla-staz said it best: you can get your point across without curse words... or something like that.

i'll decode it for you

"pvssy" = vagina
"d1ck" = penis
"fvck" = have sex with
"cvm" = to ejaculate

pretty much when you're about to use the censored word on the left... come back to this post and copy the word on the right and paste it in replacement.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=121707
Skilla_Staz said:
This forum isn't all about getting laid.

Plus, you can get your point across without swearing.

Facebook and them aren't forums. They're like MySpace...

To add to my previous comment...

The internet has caused many people to change the way they type by using shorthand, by spelling things all funky. Soon enough you'll learn to type sh*t by putting an asterisk in place of an important vowel. Either that or you'll learn to remain civil when discussing a topic.


PS. Refraining from swearing every other word not only makes you look somewhat intelligent, it also makes swearing more effective. Think of somebod you know who NEVER cusses. Now, if they got in your face and said "I'm going to f*cking kill you." Would that be more intimidating than it coming from your friend who says f*ck every 15 seconds?
 

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Can we say ass? I hate typing out arse because I'm anal about spelling things correctly.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yay! I can say ass!
 

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What the fvck is up with this shyt?

Read Senor Fingers' posts to get a lesson in censorship avoidance mastery! :yes:
 

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If people can get around the filter then what is the purpose of the filter.
All it seems to achieve is lowering the English quality of the forum and scaring newbies
 

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It's not the cuss words that bother me.

It's other words. Take for instance:

******d

why the heck does the site star out "ovtwar"????
 

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personally, I think it is better to just stay civil. Swearing is only funny in person, but on an internet site it just looks silly.

comic_relief

P.S. this has been debated a thousand times before and Allen won't do it for some reason or other.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PheonixUK said:
If people can get around the filter then what is the purpose of the filter.
All it seems to achieve is lowering the English quality of the forum and scaring newbies
I agree. But, I can also see why some people say that it is better to not use profanity, but even they must admit that the current system isnt stopping anyone from doing so. Get rid of the filter
 

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I say make it a trade off. Replace the filter with a mandatory spell checker which not only checks spelling but also blocks text message type abbreviations from posts and I'll be all for it. :up:
 

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Profanity filters are for websites which cater to under 14's, I don't quite see the point with this website.

Allen must be trying to make it family friendly. Lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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