Can we do something fun ?

[Bingo-Player]

A girl ive been texting asked me yesterday if we could meet up and do something “fun” this weekend

She wants me to pick an activity im assuming its some sort of s*it test

But anyway i text her back with “ sure il text you some plans later in the week see if they meet your requirements...” teasing her

Problem is im not really sure what’s deemed “fun” and not cheesy as a first “date”......ive met this girl before and she doesn’t seem like you’re stuck up restaurant kind of girl so i feel that would be wasted ......bowling and a bite to eat afterwards springs to mind but I’m not 100%

NB: she’s only 20 and when i jokingly asked what she ment by “fun” she was quick to mention she wasn’t a “sl*t” if that what i was trying to get at lol ......although she had kissed me on a previous occasion within 10 mins of meeting me :yawn:

 

[TheException]

A girl ive been texting asked me yesterday if we could meet up and do something “fun” this weekend

"Lets do xyz at 8pm Saturday."

I would have striked while the iron is hot. I am not a fan of kicking the can down the road.

“ sure il text you some plans later in the week see if they meet your requirements...”

Not a good response. You should be seeing if she meets up to YOUR requirements.

Problem is im not really sure what’s deemed “fun” and not cheesy as a first “date”......ive met this girl before and she doesn’t seem like you’re stuck up restaurant kind of girl so i feel that would be wasted ......bowling and a bite to eat afterwards springs to mind but I’m not 100%

Its irrelevant what you actually do. Its up to you to make it fun. I can make sitting and watching one man read poetry for 4 hours "fun". I am obviously joking but the point remains....just decide on what YOU want to do and have fun with it.

NB: she’s only 20 and when i jokingly asked what she ment by “fun” she was quick to mention she wasn’t a “sl*t” if that what i was trying to get at lol ......although she had kissed me on a previous occasion within 10 mins of meeting me :yawn:

Never "call out" a woman on stuff like this. Never ask to clarify. It comes off as if you never have a female say this sort of stuff to you. Id of elected to ignore that "fun" part and just made plans.

As played, text her with direct plans since she said she is free this weekend and wants to hang out.

 

[Willard]

I've taken several girls to the drive In movies, we get something to eat first then the movies, find out what she drinks beer, wine, hard liquor, I never watch much of the movie. Also I go to a place where they teach you how to paint a painting, they let you bring food and drinks, I painted a Van Gogh, its hanging on my wall.

 

[RagingBalls]

It finally reached a point we're a girl and i shared mutual interest in doing something fun, but it turns out to be the other way around. And one of that is giving her a FACIAL.

 

[VladPatton]

Interesting how she's demanding for you to entertain her. You could of nipped it in the ass right there:

Chick: I wanna do something fun!
You: How bout we play Pinocchio? That's REAL fun!
Chick: Never heard of it, how do you play?
You: Oh it's great...you sit on my face and I tell lies!

 

[Bingo-Player]

@exception-

I see what you mean by striking while the iron is hot and if I was actually with her in person I would have…

however if I had layed all of my cards on the table by arranging something via text immediately then she would have had ample time to work every possible scenario through her head as all women do ……and the chance of a flake would have been high ,by going down this route I avoid possible disappointment and time wasting

It’s a rare occasion for me where a chick I don’t know very well has actually asked to do something I wasn’t exactly sure what to do off the top of my head lol

I also want to note that when I text her telling her I would see if my plans met her requirements this was sent with the upmost sarcasm and was also acknowledged by her as sarcasm she seemed to respond well to this …..this is something I plan on teasing her with later down the road if all goes well

Your right I Probably shouldn’t of called her out on the fun thing but It was worth testing the waters to see if we could cut straight to the chase


Had to laugh at your comment vlad …… :crackup:

 

[JohnChops]

meet your requirments...?

really dude? never say that ever again. do what YOU want. make it an action date, or hell i like the movies even though people here think thats a bad "idea" for a "date".

do what you want.