"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can we all lighten up a bit here!

WestCoaster

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OK, some newbie I wouldn't know from jack just said I don't have my life together. Like he knows me.

Last week I was called gay.

Another told me to f-off.

I know the keyboard is mightier than the sword and I know I can get under people's skin, but please for God's sake people, lighten the h-ll up!

One thing I've noticed here is a complete lack of sense of humor. I regularly take shots at myself and being self-effacing is kind of my sense of humor. Am I the only guy who can chuckle at his life? Newbie Cruisin for example takes my self-effacement seriously and says I don't have my life together. Does the humor here only have to revolve around ripping on other people?

And since when are we completely judging how one lives their life and who has it together and who doesn't? And no, I don't care how many homes you own or what kind of car you drive. The things I care about can't be bought: class, integrity, and wisdom among many things.

There's a great article on the main site about the Stooge within and how to laugh and have a sense of humor. Is that possible here ... I know we're mature, but that doesn't mean being old and grumpy!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hahaha...yessir...agree totally...relax, have a beer, eat some pretzels..this is a good site for info, insite, humor, and entertainment..

i never DIRECTLY called you gay...and actually, dont really question your manhood at all...we all know you like the 'tang'..

if you re read the reply, its actually light hearted...maybe i dont have enough vodka in my starbucks..

but yea...back to the main point, i think EVERYONE has taken shots on this board - whether it be me, WESTCOASTER, you reading this, or even POOK...we've all had our share of people who dont believe our opinions...just locker talk, just goodfellas busting b*lls...

but yea..lets switch to the decaf people..
 

Eternal

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It would also help if people learned how to spell and type correctly.

its vry anyoign tering 2 raed tis grabge...u knw wut i meannn
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I agree with the gay guy! :)

One thing I always keep in mind:

"Arguing over the internet is like competing in the special olympics. You may win, but you're still retarded"

10 years of posting on message boards has taught me that if you take everything personally, you probably won't last long on any board.

Thick skin is the way to go. And do any of us base our self worth on what people say about us over the internet?

Now let's see the (non gay) love !

*Sparks a joint, and passes it to the left*

its vry anyoign tering 2 raed tis grabge...u knw wut i meannn
People who type like that R TEH DEBIL.
 
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