"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can we all lighten up a bit here!

WestCoaster

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OK, some newbie I wouldn't know from jack just said I don't have my life together. Like he knows me.

Last week I was called gay.

Another told me to f-off.

I know the keyboard is mightier than the sword and I know I can get under people's skin, but please for God's sake people, lighten the h-ll up!

One thing I've noticed here is a complete lack of sense of humor. I regularly take shots at myself and being self-effacing is kind of my sense of humor. Am I the only guy who can chuckle at his life? Newbie Cruisin for example takes my self-effacement seriously and says I don't have my life together. Does the humor here only have to revolve around ripping on other people?

And since when are we completely judging how one lives their life and who has it together and who doesn't? And no, I don't care how many homes you own or what kind of car you drive. The things I care about can't be bought: class, integrity, and wisdom among many things.

There's a great article on the main site about the Stooge within and how to laugh and have a sense of humor. Is that possible here ... I know we're mature, but that doesn't mean being old and grumpy!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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hahaha...yessir...agree totally...relax, have a beer, eat some pretzels..this is a good site for info, insite, humor, and entertainment..

i never DIRECTLY called you gay...and actually, dont really question your manhood at all...we all know you like the 'tang'..

if you re read the reply, its actually light hearted...maybe i dont have enough vodka in my starbucks..

but yea...back to the main point, i think EVERYONE has taken shots on this board - whether it be me, WESTCOASTER, you reading this, or even POOK...we've all had our share of people who dont believe our opinions...just locker talk, just goodfellas busting b*lls...

but yea..lets switch to the decaf people..
 

Eternal

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It would also help if people learned how to spell and type correctly.

its vry anyoign tering 2 raed tis grabge...u knw wut i meannn
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree with the gay guy! :)

One thing I always keep in mind:

"Arguing over the internet is like competing in the special olympics. You may win, but you're still retarded"

10 years of posting on message boards has taught me that if you take everything personally, you probably won't last long on any board.

Thick skin is the way to go. And do any of us base our self worth on what people say about us over the internet?

Now let's see the (non gay) love !

*Sparks a joint, and passes it to the left*

its vry anyoign tering 2 raed tis grabge...u knw wut i meannn
People who type like that R TEH DEBIL.
 
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