can u raise interest again if shes lost interest when u acted afc setting up 2nd date

[drift king]

is it possible to raise interest again once she's lost interest?

say she has high interest after 1st date (you kiss close) then when u go to 2nd date close on the phone u act afc and she loses interest, how do you thereby raise interest again?

she's no longer in front of u and the only way to reach her will be by phone. is it still possible to raise interest? if so, how?

 

[Pathgen]

If she has high interest on the first date like you suggested you would have had to been very afc to mess it up on a phone call imo. As long as you didnt confess your love or some **** like that over the phone i dont think she would have lost interest on the phone....

So my conclusion is that maybe you didn't have that high of interest in the first place? Just speculation, but otherwise i dont know what you can do to raise her interest again.

I say go meet someone else and dont make the same mistakes

 

[drift king]

it's more you try to arrange a 2nd date on the phone and sound nervous.. she doesn't give you a yes or offer a counter time.. you start to panic and not sure what to do cos you assume that she'll say yes cos of her supposed high interest.

literally that's the scenario what do you do?

i.e. leave it for a few days (3-5?) pretend like nothing happened? or word your date arrangements differently.

i get texts the next day after a first date telling me what a great time they had so i'd assume it would be high interest.. but what puzzles me is when i go to arrange the 2nd date a few days later they act as if they've never seen me before. it's weird.