can u hear me?

[schttrj]

well after a long time here...
anyways, my question is simple. most girls tell me i'm cute, kiddish looking (younger looking for my age of 23) but not hot....i am sick of it.
now here is a thing, previously when i used to be shy and infront of chicks, would rather avoid them or be quiet as if i didn't care about them, they used to say i'm charming, but now when i actually go out and flirt with them, act funky if u know what i mean, then they talk to me and i make friends, not the cliche "friends", but i don't get the hot girls, i mean those who are really hot, and others don't take me seriously.
my questions are...
what do you define as hot?
what would suggest to take up as a personality if he is boyish or kiddish looking?
which pickup artists and celebrities are hot?
...and guys, i really want an answer, i hope i won't have to bump again and again!!

 

[daygameguy]

Well, you know, David D once said, to be a man, you got to let the boy die.

That doesn't mean you can't be silly, but you can't be played around with. You gotta assert your boundaries when you need to.

Try having a strong frame and a very secure and strong belief system when you are talking to the girls, that WILL trigger some curiosity. They WILL feel that he must have some value or else why would he be so confident!

 

[schttrj]

i think you are right...i was thinking about it yesterday. i figured out that i am quite friendly, not particularly rapport seeking but very easy. i have to make myself a little more unavailable, bring in a little more arrogance into it. am i ryt?

 

[pua1989]

girls 16-23 are looking for a badass. take up a dangerous hobby or get into a lot of brawls works here

 

[Captain]

girls 16-23 are looking for a badass. take up a dangerous hobby or get into a lot of brawls works here

I agree with the first point, and I disagree with the second.

Getting into fights lowers your value. Self defense is important, but randomly starting or deliberately getting into fights is stupid.

 

[Analyzeit]

Getting into fights works here too, I'm in the 16-23 age bracket and it does work, but mostly only with trashy girls, you should hear the way they talk about it, "He bashed this guy for me, it was soo sweet" Jesus christ i do not understand this one, but i gave up trying to understand women ages ago, and took up trying to get in there pants.

And i few scars and a black eye will make you look a little less cute. haha

But really and pua1989 will know this, to the good girls it is a complete turn off.

If you think they think your cute because of your looks, then changing your personality won't help. I have a mate (22 years) with this kind of problem (He never picks up older chicks no matter how he tries) one day he tried to change it by changing his personality, I saw him actually tell a chick and serious at that, "Shut the fvck up, or i'm going to bash a hole in the side of your head and fvck your brains in with my c0ck" and she turned to her friend and said "see ain't he cute"

Trust me, knowing the answer to those question isn't going to help, what you should do is:

Make it damn obvious you do not want to be friends

And (this is what my "Cute" mate does now) Try escalate a little faster. let them know your not looking for friendship and soon as possible

You can't change your looks but you got a mouth, hands and a covk so work with what you got

 

[daygameguy]

But if someone's not that into being a fighter, he shouldn't conform to other people's standards and go out starting fights. That's not him being true to himself or what he wants. That's like living someone else's life. That's fvcked.

21 yr old guys in Harvard don't need to fight to demonstrate value.

 

[Allurre]

What do I define as hot?

If you can make her feel attracted to you, always keep her thinking about you, bringing excitement to her life, she will label you as HOT.

Hot isn't just the looks bro... it's the time of life you give her.

Check out my 20 Dating Secrets 97% of Men Worldwide Don't Know About Women too... it'll be a great favor to yourself =)

Respect,

Allurre

 

[schttrj]

i have already cheked the site