"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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can u ever date s1 with first name or same last name?

warrior1

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ok if you meet s1 and are attracted to her. Then suddenly you ask for their name and of course their first name is the same as your sister/mother and you say to yourself, this is not good. Or if you find out that they have the same last name as you.

For me, no way anything is going to happen. I just have to get s1 that doesn't have any name relations at all. I am pretty sure everyone feels this way right?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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onyx

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why should a name stop you?
 

warrior1

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it just doesn't feel right. I am pretty sure most gals would not like this as well if the guy she sees a guy she likes only to find out that his name is the same as his brother's/dad.
 

insidious

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Sounds like you got a personal issue(s).

It wouldn't mean squat to me. It's just a name.
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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insidious said:
Sounds like you got a personal issue(s).

It wouldn't mean squat to me. It's just a name.

Exactly
 

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lol - u weird
 

ValleyDJing

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warrior, I'm with you on this one. I don't see how any of you could be screaming out/moaning your sister's name during sex...now that would be weird. :down: And wtf, she's not gonna gave a maiden name? thats the stuff that incest is made out of man! :crackup: .....:down:
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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ValleyDJing said:
warrior, I'm with you on this one. I don't see how any of you could be screaming out/moaning your sister's name during sex...now that would be weird. :down: And wtf, she's not gonna gave a maiden name? thats the stuff that incest is made out of man! :crackup: .....:down:

You guys are hillarious.

The name doesn't mean sh!t. I've dated three girls in a row with the exact same 1st name. how weird is that?

If her first name was the same as my sister, who cares?

i find it really hard to believe you'd turn someone down just cuz their name was the same as your moms or your sisters. That's just weird.
 

AlexTheGreat

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lol I've already dated a girl who's first name was the same as mine (or close: I'm Alexandru, she's Alexandra, so we both just call eachother alex lol). so anyways it was weird in the beginning but it doesn't stop anything from happening .. a name's a name; it only becomes a problem when you make it one.
 

ValleyDJing

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The Bad Ass Canadian I've dated three girls in a row with the exact same 1st name. how weird is that? [/QUOTE said:
very. jp i don't know. Same name as you seems okay, but sister's name? ehh, nah. and last name no.
 

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Ace of Flames

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I knew a couple back in high school who both had the last name Taylor. People would joke about them being married or whatever, but they joked about it too, so it was just fun for everyone. They were very close.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
I knew a couple back in high school who both had the last name Taylor. People would joke about them being married or whatever, but they joked about it too, so it was just fun for everyone. They were very close.
Cool.

I knew a guy named taylor once.
 

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i did not mean sth like alexander and alexandra... i don't think that is any problem. Just meant last names or first name as a person witin your family
 

niceguydying

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You gotta be kidding??? I had this big ass oneitis with a girl who had my mom's name and it didn't bother me at all. Why would a name be a deal breaker?
 
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