"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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can someone recommend a good ebook or audio program for my situation

Dman101

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I was wondering if anyone can recommend an ebook, book, or audio or video program to help me become betta with dating and women.

Basically I have everything material that a woman should want. Good looking, tall, working on the physique, my own apartment, Infiniti G 35, good job, college degree, expensive clothes , etc.

The problem is, I cant keep a woman interested and I dont know how to really communicate with women so well. I can meet a woman online go on a date, but then I dont know how to escalate it, or keep them around. I know I dont have swagger, confidence, or real good social skills, and this is what I'm seeking. Also I need to know how the whole process is supposed to work, my goal is to have 4-5 plates that I can have sex with and get new ones as the plates crack. Are there any ebooks or products out there that you can recommend that would help me
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm in the Mood

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You should definitely read "Attraction is not a Choice" by David DeAngelo and "Magic Bullets" by Savoy/Lovesystems.

They did wonders for me; pm me if you want them emailed to you.

Btw I hope you're not relying on online dating, because real world pickup is much faster and more efficient, thanks to non-verbal communication.
Well, that's my take on it at least.
 

Bobby_Rio

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I agree David DeAngelo is the best place to start if you haven't read anything else.
 
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