"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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can someone recommend a good ebook or audio program for my situation

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Dman101

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I was wondering if anyone can recommend an ebook, book, or audio or video program to help me become betta with dating and women.

Basically I have everything material that a woman should want. Good looking, tall, working on the physique, my own apartment, Infiniti G 35, good job, college degree, expensive clothes , etc.

The problem is, I cant keep a woman interested and I dont know how to really communicate with women so well. I can meet a woman online go on a date, but then I dont know how to escalate it, or keep them around. I know I dont have swagger, confidence, or real good social skills, and this is what I'm seeking. Also I need to know how the whole process is supposed to work, my goal is to have 4-5 plates that I can have sex with and get new ones as the plates crack. Are there any ebooks or products out there that you can recommend that would help me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm in the Mood

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You should definitely read "Attraction is not a Choice" by David DeAngelo and "Magic Bullets" by Savoy/Lovesystems.

They did wonders for me; pm me if you want them emailed to you.

Btw I hope you're not relying on online dating, because real world pickup is much faster and more efficient, thanks to non-verbal communication.
Well, that's my take on it at least.
 
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I agree David DeAngelo is the best place to start if you haven't read anything else.
 
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