"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can someone help me with shaving?

RazorAzoth

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I'm sorry if this is dumb question/discussion. I didn't really have a male figure in my life that showed me this stuff.

I'm wondering if someone can please help me with information on shaving. If I don't shave for about 3 days I love the way my face looks, it looks a lot better with some scruff. However, how do I keep it that way? I hate the way it looks when I use shaving cream and shave it close with a razor and I don't like how it looks when it grows longer than that scruff. I bought an electric razor but it cuts it down too much, like clean shaven.

I'm thinking there's gotta be an electric razor out there that has a setting to achieve that scruff look all the time? Please help with any information.

Also, does it look strange to have scruff on your face but clean shave your neck? My neck gets so irritated and itchy with hair on it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm thinking there's gotta be an electric razor out there that has a setting to achieve that scruff look all the time? Please help with any information.

Also, does it look strange to have scruff on your face but clean shave your neck? My neck gets so irritated and itchy with hair on it.
Try barber clippers. They have guards that can go pretty low so you should fine one for the length you desire but they don't shave as fine as an electric razor.

As for 5 o'clock shadow vis a vis neckbeard I say shave below your adam's apple and trim with clippers above it. If you shave at the jawline it tends to look awkward.
 

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You can get a set of clippers at places like Walmart for pretty cheap. They come with different sized plastic guides that go over the blades, depending on how long you want to keep it. Make sure you clean the blades after every use, and oil them before you use them, and they'll last you a long time.

As a side note, buy two of them: One for your face and one for your pubes. Women don't like putting their face in a stinky piss-and-sweat-filled man bush.
 

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Regarding the pubes, I use the Phillips BodyGroom electric razor.

Thanks for the replies so far, much appreciated. So it looks like you are both recommending barber clippers with different guards? I wonder is that what Adam Levine uses to always have the scruff? That's the kind I like on my face.
 

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Definitely barber clippers. I use a Remington that's about $20 on Amazon for my beard. If I were to put the guard down to 1 it would be scruff-level. (I have it at 2 for my beard and razor-shave my neck, but that's me.)
Thanks for the info. As far as your neck, do you just razor shave below the Adams apple or shave your entire neck?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The smaller clippers are a little easier to use. Big ones are for cutting hair. Most of them are cordless, but the corded ones are cheap.

You might as well buy a nose/ear hair trimmer, too. They look like this:
 

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OK I bought a grooming set from Walmart for $20. Comes with small clippers with 6 different guards, foil head shaver attachment, detailer attachment, and even a nose/ear trimmer attachment. Hopefully it works. For me it takes like 5-7 days to get the scruff I want so that will be like Wednesday and I'll try it. The lowest guard is 1/16 of an inch so I should be good.
 
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