"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can someone fill me in?

On_the_Top

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Since I haven't been posting here regularly for the past few months, can somone please fill me in on the big momentum swing that this board has taken? All I have seen lately are flame wars and threads with the topics about ho's, *****, sluts, oh and almost forgot, femnazi, he he :D Just want to know what the hell has been going on? Now fellas I know the world is all phucked up and doesn't work the way some people think it should, but damn.......
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jake-inator

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I think it all started in the Too Much Chauvinism Thread... And it escalated into a full fledged flame war when PRL decided to pull out a knife.

Those who respect wh0res Vs. those who treat wh0res like they deserve to get treated.

So pick a side... and start flaming. No use wasting your time on constructive threads. :crackup:
 

On_the_Top

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Meh, the only side I'm on is mine and thats the only ally I need.:cheer:
 

belividere

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Actually Jake-inator was one of the starters of those waste-of-bandwidth threads. Yeah I have no idea what happened around here. Last week femnazis this week race. Really the only thing I know is that none of it has been constructive and none of it has gotten anyone closer to getting girls or getting laid. Just ignore it and hopefully it will go away so we can get back to the true heart of the matter of why everyone is here and have constructive conversations as to how to get there.
 

Paprika

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The quality of this message board has certainly deteriorated over the years.

It seems like most posts on here go something like "A girl said/did X to me. What do I do?/What does it mean?"

And the chauvinism does get old. It doesn't fool anybody. Anyone who's been on here long enough realizes that the most chauvinistic people here are usually the ones getting the least pvssy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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