"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can someone explain why this guy at my college gets so much a$$?

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But one of the rules is that girls are not the most important things in the world. Some ppl make girls bigger than they are. They are human beings like me and you. Conversely, why shouldnt they be intimitated of you?

Finally, if you is not feeling this forum, then how come you are posting on it?

Remember, everyone has to start from somewhere..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wjh said:
He may just be bold.

Lots of hot chicks have sex with guys just because they're bold.

Who cares?

If you want to bang more hot chicks go after them aggressively. That's probably just it.

SO TRUE
 

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Kingbeef: I feel that you're probably right; girls seem like they just buy into it, no matter who you truly are as a person. This kid is a total pvssy in every sense of the word, but that's only according to us males. From my experience, girls are in a totally different world and don't see alphaness as we see it. When we think of an alpha male we think of a buff guy who can stand up to anyone without fear and fight if necessary. It seems like girls only need to be convinced that your a tough guy, and even if you act like a little b!tch, you already convinced them that your tough so it doesn't matter to them.
 

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He's in college where metrosexual guys outperform the ultra alpha guys. Once past 18 years old, only trailer trash girls would still swoon for the alphas.

I hope people on this board would stop worship of alphas. Being an a-hole thuggish alpha might have worked great back in high school. But girls eventually grow up and search for men who have more substantive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did anyone actually read the link to my trolling of MenAreFromMars? It's funny. I was actually asked to troll the site by relationship advisor and 'sexpert' Dr Petra Boynton, who also used to post at My Pole.

And violent meathead does not equal alpha.
 

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You guys all make some interesting points (except for the troll accusers), but I can't wrap my mind around the fact that this kid does what he does. I know people who are players, and the best ones are the ones who walk into a room and you can just feel their presence. They keep their cool, and aren't afraid of anyone (not to be confused with "violent meatheads"). But this kid is up there with the best I've seen, and he is none of these things. He's loud, openly arrogant, tries to act tough but backs down once anyone challenges him, etc. All I can gather is that he is confident to a ridiculous extent and he's an outgoing guy. But when it comes to acting like a man, he simply doesn't.
 

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hammahamma said:
So does confidence in oneself surpass every other possible attribute one could have (looks, alpha, smoothness, etc.)?
BINGO!!!!!!!

Now, take this statement, memorize it, memorize it again. Chant it inside of yourself every chance you get and don't let it get away. You just made a key revelation in your dealings not only with girls, but life.

CONFIDENCE.

It's the most important thing you can have. Without it, you will FAIL. Always.

BTW, confidence IS "alpha".
 

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FurryFriend said:
He's in college where metrosexual guys outperform the ultra alpha guys. Once past 18 years old, only trailer trash girls would still swoon for the alphas.

I hope people on this board would stop worship of alphas. Being an a-hole thuggish alpha might have worked great back in high school. But girls eventually grow up and search for men who have more substantive.

Absolute bullsh!t.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FurryFriend said:
He's in college where metrosexual guys outperform the ultra alpha guys. Once past 18 years old, only trailer trash girls would still swoon for the alphas.

I hope people on this board would stop worship of alphas. Being an a-hole thuggish alpha might have worked great back in high school. But girls eventually grow up and search for men who have more substantive.
Wow. Alphaness has nothing to do with how big or thugged out you are, furry.
 

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persiangino said:
Wow. Alphaness has nothing to do with how big or thugged out you are, furry.
yes.. as long as you make use of your reptilian brain anything is possible, no matter what..
 

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FurryFriend said:
He's in college where metrosexual guys outperform the ultra alpha guys. Once past 18 years old, only trailer trash girls would still swoon for the alphas.

I hope people on this board would stop worship of alphas. Being an a-hole thuggish alpha might have worked great back in high school. But girls eventually grow up and search for men who have more substantive.
So, how do you explain the 50 year old woman I work with who still goes for the "bad boy" type?
 

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Vypros said:
So, how do you explain the 50 year old woman I work with who still goes for the "bad boy" type?
The rare exceptions do not prove a trend. There are always mutants in every sample.
 

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The only thing a metrosexual has to offer is tips on what brand hair gel to use. Women grow up and stop wasting time with immature bad boys,it doesn't mean they prefer sissies, they just want stability.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Remulak said:
The more puzzy you get the more puzzy you get.
That's so profound. Are you sure you're not a modern day Plato?
 

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i dont get it , haven't we determined that this a troll post and the guy in question is lying/bull****ing...why are we still discussing a scamer
 

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ummm??? who is a troll again?
 

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Nighthawk said:
Well spotted V-Man, it smelled fishy to me too. Certain trolls seem to derive pleasure from making others regurgitate DJ principals. Often the only giveaway is the post is too perfect, the bait too sweet, the thread title too eye-catching to be an accident.

I don't really mind though, I've trolled other sites plenty and understand the cheap AW thrill. The problem is these guys aren't funny enough. To see a great piece of trolling, check me out at the Men Are From Mars site from a couple of years back. My accounts still live, maybe I should resurrect 'Devin.'

http://www.marsvenus.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=724&hl=
lol genius, i like devin :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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