"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can someone explain why this guy at my college gets so much a$$?

Production6257

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There's this guy at my school, and I would say that he is 90% the opposite of what this site says. He is basically the anti-alpha. A total wimp, consantly backing out of fights (he actaully pissed a guy off, so the guy took a swing at him and accidently punches this kid's girlfriend in the face, AND HE STILL BACKED DOWN). He even says he wants to start carrying around mace! He is tall, but very skinny (about 6'3 150), before going on accutane had very bad cystic acne all over his face (and still kept me awake when he was banging the hell out of his girlfriend almost every night). He is an emo kid, I'm pretty sure I heard him cry when he was talking to his girlfriend. He is weak, not an athlete, and just physically an all around wimp, but still gets girl after girl after girl (he no longer has the girlfriend because he dumped her last summer. Did I mention that she's ridiculously hot?)

There are some good attributes that I noticed about him though. Even though he is very scrawny, he walks around all the time with his shirt off, pokes his pecs out, and half-jokingly flexes for any girl that's around (and he is seriously only HALF-joking). He wears tiny T-shirts and seems confident in his body. I think that his confidence is by far his number one attribute. Even when he had the cystic acne, he acted like he was the best looking guy around and never put his head down. Personally, when I had acne in high school, which wasn't even close to as bad as his, I couldn't even look people in the eye, and am still suffering from the psychological aspect of it. So basically he talks to a lot of hot girls and act like there is noone better than him. He is pretty arrogant sometimes, but I still respect the hell out of him because he is basically an extreme version of all the little things that I am insecure about and still has pulled more girls than I can hope to pull in my lifetime.

So does confidence in oneself surpass every other possible attribute one could have (looks, alpha, smoothness, etc.)? Or does this kid just have something that I'm missing?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does he continuously get hot girls?

If the answer is yes, are these girls devoid of intelligence? Are they superficial, daddy-touched-me-when-I-was-little-so-now-Im-a-hoe types? Do they ever talk about anything significant or can you tell that she's been ridden and put away wet?

Does he party a lot and they tag along? Does he do coke? Is he rich?

Lastly, how many girls is "SO MUCH A$$?" what is the number we are talking about here an in what time frame?
 

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Sounds more like he's 90% exactly how this site says to be.
 

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After he broke up with his girlfriend, he basically went nuts and banged A LOT of girls. I can't really tell you the number, as I don't stalk the kid, but there was one time when he had sex with a girl, didn't crack a nut, and about ten minutes later ANOTHER girl came in, he told her he didn't bust, so she gave him oral and made him bust. He has all kinds of crazy escapades. He now has a new girlfriend that is the type that every guy sees and knows they can't have. I don't know her too well, but she lost her virginity to him so she can't be too crazy (she's 18). He does party a lot and it seems like he knows like half the people there. He isn't rich and doesn't do drugs (maybe weed once or twice but that's it). We're in college btw, so partying a lot means that he drinks like 2-4 times a week I would say. I usually only go out 1ce a week because I'm trying to focus on staying in shape and keeping my grades up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow. This is you too? I just got done checking your previous posts dude, you have like 50 aliases! Good job getting this version of you up to 71 posts!

I see why you never fill in an age... you wouldn't be able to keep all your "alter egos" straight.

Man, how long have you been trolling? And.... why?

Totally ignored, reported, neg repped... all that.
 

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He may just be bold.

Lots of hot chicks have sex with guys just because they're bold.

Who cares?

If you want to bang more hot chicks go after them aggressively. That's probably just it.
 

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I wanna see pics of these "hot" girls.
 

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Vulpine said:
Wow. This is you too? I just got done checking your previous posts dude, you have like 50 aliases! Good job getting this version of you up to 71 posts!

I see why you never fill in an age... you wouldn't be able to keep all your "alter egos" straight.

Man, how long have you been trolling? And.... why?

Totally ignored, reported, neg repped... all that.
Well spotted V-Man, it smelled fishy to me too. Certain trolls seem to derive pleasure from making others regurgitate DJ principals. Often the only giveaway is the post is too perfect, the bait too sweet, the thread title too eye-catching to be an accident.

I don't really mind though, I've trolled other sites plenty and understand the cheap AW thrill. The problem is these guys aren't funny enough. To see a great piece of trolling, check me out at the Men Are From Mars site from a couple of years back. My accounts still live, maybe I should resurrect 'Devin.'

http://www.marsvenus.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=724&hl=
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nighthawk said:
I don't really mind though, I've trolled other sites plenty and understand the cheap AW thrill. The problem is these guys aren't funny enough. To see a great piece of trolling, check me out at the Men Are From Mars site from a couple of years back. My accounts still live, maybe I should resurrect 'Devin.'
Until it actually becomes something that would advantage you, you might want to keep the admission of being a troll anywhere to yourself. I made a note to self that any post with your handle now is a possible troll post.
 

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azanon said:
Until it actually becomes something that would advantage you, you might want to keep the admission of being a troll anywhere to yourself. I made a note to self that any post with your handle now is a possible troll post.
Relax, check my post history there's nothing but truth there.
 
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Troll Fest #219084109 ?
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You know what's gonna happen? People who know this sh it and actually took time to respond will get annoyed and stop posting. And then there is going to be a lot of circle jerking going on.

The list of people I look for in threads is down to like 10 people now..
 

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Of course look matter. Why? Because girls are shallow and fickle.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Riptastic said:
No. Shallow is this crappy feminist bull****!

Darwinism is why looks count.
Agree. If your rich and you look loaded you can get any chick, regardless of looks. Fact. I think this is a generic rule, well its especially in poncy London clubs.
 

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Riptastic said:
Trolling is a term applied to people that have better arguing skills, and the the people that use the term troll, use it because they can't even debate it. Troll is a word, that's the easy way to win.

Like I said, DARWINISM OWNS YOU!!
No mate, trolling is another form of attention seeking. Its for petty people.
 

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hammahamma said:
There are some good attributes that I noticed about him though. Even though he is very scrawny, he walks around all the time with his shirt off, pokes his pecs out, and half-jokingly flexes for any girl that's around (and he is seriously only HALF-joking). He wears tiny T-shirts and seems confident in his body. I think that his confidence is by far his number one attribute. Even when he had the cystic acne, he acted like he was the best looking guy around and never put his head down. Personally, when I had acne in high school, which wasn't even close to as bad as his, I couldn't even look people in the eye, and am still suffering from the psychological aspect of it. So basically he talks to a lot of hot girls and act like there is noone better than him. He is pretty arrogant sometimes, but I still respect the hell out of him because he is basically an extreme version of all the little things that I am insecure about and still has pulled more girls than I can hope to pull in my lifetime.

So does confidence in oneself surpass every other possible attribute one could have (looks, alpha, smoothness, etc.)? Or does this kid just have something that I'm missing?
You've got it - confidence is probably what does it for him. Confidence is related to looks, alphaness and smoothness. Look at yourself in a mirror when you're looking tense (hunched shoulders, crossed arms, eyes on the floor, fidgety) compared to confident (shoulders back and relaxed, back straight, walking like you're a God in a humans body, and generally looking like nothing concerns you/there's no problem on earth that you can't handle). You'll notice that you look way better when acting confident than when acting like a lesser man - So that's your looks and alphaness improved right there. Smoothness is the same. Much easier to be smooth if you're confident, isn't it?
 

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Riptastic said:
We are attracted to others of the opposite sex for one reason, propagation of the species. We are attracted to ones that are best for propagating the species. Height, face structure, ability to provide, play the real rolls of attraction, not C&F, neg + L33T Uber comments.
So are you saying that this forum is a farce, and the more good looking you are, the more successfull you will be with women? If your good looking, you have confidence, and you have a natural buzz/aderaline, high self-esteem and your used to getting attention from women. Therefore, it is not necessary to use the techniques on this forum, although, the more knowledge you have, the more power you have.

But i dont think many good looking ppl would be on a forum like this in the first place. As their self esteem would be high, and there is a positive correlation between having low self esteem and joining forums like this(not that anything is wrong with it)

Anyway, going a bit off topic here.
 

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Riptastic said:
The only people that think trolls are seeking attention are the ones that are sick of losing the attention. Darwinism, once again.
Not really dude. I dont give a **** if someone tolls or not, but if i had a choice, i would rather there be less trolls, as the integrity of the forum is compromised. And whats with this Darwinsim stuff man. Is everything related to Darwinism? One would aruge that is a simplistic theory my friend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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