irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
I know its ironic I am making this post on V-day but whatever..
this is sort of frustrating to me.
A few months ago the ex left me. Why? At first I didn't know. Over time reading the forums and DJ bible I made that classic mistake where once I got into the relationship I became too nice and placed her first in my life above everything.
And when she broke up, instead of going NC I cried to her like a little b*tch(not real crying but you know what I mean)
Now...she got with a dude that I know(well she got with him over a month ago)
Normal right?
Well...this dude is really nice....drowns her in attention....and is overall a p&ssy...like I see him on facebook posting some like "omg I miss my babe"(which sickens me because yes I still have feelings for her)
I learned to let go, but its just frustrating that she leaves me and gets with a dude that is a much nicer guy than me.....like wtf.....I thought thats what girls run away from.
And prior to getting with my ex, this dude has not had a girl in YEARS. Girls always hang around him because he is "sweet" and "kind" but never are into him. And he has not really changed, I see him in real life from time to time and he is still the same dude that would not hurt a fly and is full of manners and smiles and drowns you in kindness(when I see him in real life its hard to hate him)
I am not trying to get back with my ex...trust me. But this situation just got me really frustrated. I just have to ask...how...and why? I am beyond confused...has anyone had a similar thing happen ?
My only explanation is, my ex's best friend really likes this dude(as a friend)...and they do say females friends are a powerful influence...but is that really the sole reason she is with him and him being too nice is not a problem? I am confused..
this is sort of frustrating to me.
A few months ago the ex left me. Why? At first I didn't know. Over time reading the forums and DJ bible I made that classic mistake where once I got into the relationship I became too nice and placed her first in my life above everything.
And when she broke up, instead of going NC I cried to her like a little b*tch(not real crying but you know what I mean)
Now...she got with a dude that I know(well she got with him over a month ago)
Normal right?
Well...this dude is really nice....drowns her in attention....and is overall a p&ssy...like I see him on facebook posting some like "omg I miss my babe"(which sickens me because yes I still have feelings for her)
I learned to let go, but its just frustrating that she leaves me and gets with a dude that is a much nicer guy than me.....like wtf.....I thought thats what girls run away from.
And prior to getting with my ex, this dude has not had a girl in YEARS. Girls always hang around him because he is "sweet" and "kind" but never are into him. And he has not really changed, I see him in real life from time to time and he is still the same dude that would not hurt a fly and is full of manners and smiles and drowns you in kindness(when I see him in real life its hard to hate him)
I am not trying to get back with my ex...trust me. But this situation just got me really frustrated. I just have to ask...how...and why? I am beyond confused...has anyone had a similar thing happen ?
My only explanation is, my ex's best friend really likes this dude(as a friend)...and they do say females friends are a powerful influence...but is that really the sole reason she is with him and him being too nice is not a problem? I am confused..