"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can someone explain difference for me

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Happy turkey day everyone.

I'm looking to learn exactly how to communicate emotionally and not logically with woman like everyone always seems to suggest.

It confuses me in different contexts as to how exactly you do this. Can someone provide examples on the matter or a guideline that will make it easy to understand and implement every time, even when it's during an argument etc.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Breaking it down like that does make it a little tough to grasp. Try think of it as, Covert & Overt.

In other words, you should communicate important things to women with action rather than words.

Ex. If you really like a female, rather then saying "I really like you" you show her by giving her affection.

Try to keep the overt aspect of things low and be a man of action by communicating covertly. Women respond much better to it.

However, this doesn't mean, don't talk to her haha.

Hope this helps

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In other words, don't text you want to see a girl send a video clip of you putting your arms around an empty chair and pointing at the camera suggesting it could be her.... lol

But really, it is more covert & overt. Don't try to talk about important things relating to you and her as you would a buddy with the mind sight of trying to convince, explain, rationalize.

In other words they need to FEEL what you're trying to say (video clip example)
 
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