Can someone babysit Luke? Charity work.

[dakota]

Seriously guys.. lay off Luke.. everyone does things at their own pace. We are all different people. There is no simple one answer why a particular person is a virgin. For the record... I still am.. yet will turn 40 this summer. Big deal, so what.. if I really wanted to just lose my virginity.. that could be easily enough done... I do not seek validation in how many chicks I can score... to do so is shallow and weak minded I think.. many of the people on this forum seem to think sex is the end all of end alls.. whatever...believe what you wish... in reality .. heck whats the point.. people never listen anyhow.. they will believe what they wish to believe.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

That's just the thing, I'm under a strick curfew here. My mom's said if I do anything, she'll disown me as her son...

That way too fvcked up...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

The only EXPLINATION is his parents have created a bizzar and false reality that he has become accustomed to.

This is social conditioning to the thousandth degree.

I'm with you except for it being a false reality. It's the reality that Luke's living with. It's as real as it can get for him. It seems as if he's the man of the house.

 

[Desdinova]

furthermore, it would break my mother's heart if I did get laid and since she is currently supporting me and I'm living under her roof, I have to respect her policies.

You know Luke, usually an AFC will hand the deed to his penis over to his girlfriend. I'm really trying to figure out why you mom is currently in posession of it. It's really sad to see someone who has no life of his own, nor has a body of his own. You are a robot, created and run by your parents. What's going to happen when your owners / operators die? Who is going to make all the decisions for you?

My mom's said if I do anything, she'll disown me as her son. I cant just stay over night somewhere like that in this environment.

Luke, I've been disowned by both of my parents for the same reasons you would be disowned. I've had enough of the control that they tried to impose on me, and just said "fvck it" and did my own thing. I got kicked out of my house at age 19 for sleeping over at my girlfriend's place all the time. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. I got complete freedom and became independent. I didn't speak to my father for about two years, but he eventually came around. Currently, I am disowned by my mother for an entirely different matter, but again it's for the better. She'll probably come around (although I really couldn't give a 5hit if she did)

Your parents just tell you all that bull5hit so they can control you.

Here's a link for you:

http://www.controllingparents.com/

And to make sure you fvcking read some of whats there, I'm going to quote it...

Ten Signs Your Parents May Still Control You

Even today as an adult, you...
1. Feel disloyal when acting or feeling differently than your parents

2. Feel easily annoyed or impatient with your parents without knowing why

3. Feel confused by parental mixed messages

4. Are afraid to express your true feelings around your parents

5. Feel intimidated or belittled by your parents

6. Worry more about pleasing your parents than being yourself

7. Find it hard to emotionally separate from your parents

8. Talk to your parents more out of obligation than choice

9. Get tense when you think about being around your parents

10. Want to temporarily reduce or sever contact with a parent



Ten Signs Early Unhealthy Control May Still Affect You

In your adult life, you...
1. Feel perfectionistic, driven, or rarely satisfied

2. Feel intimidated or easily angered around controlling people

3. Lose yourself in relationships by automatically putting others' needs first

4. Find it hard to relax, laugh or be spontaneous

5. Feel as if you are under scrutiny even when no one else is around

6. Have an eating disorder or addictive behaviors

7. Have trouble finding a spiritual belief that feels right

8. Expect others to hurt, judge, or take advantage of you

9. Have harsh "inner critics"

10. Have trouble asserting yourself or feeling proud of your accomplishments

I also recommend you pick up a book called "Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life" by Dr. Susan Forward.

And here's an amazon.com link to buy it:
http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Parents-Overcoming-Hurtful-Reclaiming/dp/0553381407

 

[Dannyrt34]

Luke, my man, you know what?
I have a friend who's in the same boat as you. Of course he's only 21 but his parents don't allow him out past 11pm. Hell, they rarely let him out at all, unless they know exactly where he's going and he has to call and check up.

You know what else? He's completely incapable of having normal social interactions with people (especially women). I have come to the conclusion that with such strict parents, and him never getting to experience or learn how to act in social situations, have left him clueless. I think sometimes it is actually the PARENTS fault for their kids not knowing how to deal with anything socially (such as getting girls). After all, you do learn from experience, so what if your parents never let you out to get that experience. It kind of makes me mad to think about, that the parents are also clueless of why their kid never had a gf to bring home to show them.

And yeah, he's also a virgin. Never even had a kiss yet.

 

[ryannath]

Luke, why would it "break your mother's heart" that you, a 30 year old man, got laid, something that is a part of a healthy adult life? Man, there was a time when I wouldn't get out much and my mom told me to get out of the house and find me some girls. She actually wanted me to get laid. I don't see how it would "break your mother's heart" to get laid. It's not healthy to be 30 and a virgin. That is what makes pedophiles.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Luke, why would it "break your mother's heart" that you, a 30 year old man, got laid, something that is a part of a healthy adult life? Man, there was a time when I wouldn't get out much and my mom told me to get out of the house and find me some girls. She actually wanted me to get laid. I don't see how it would "break your mother's heart" to get laid. It's not healthy to be 30 and a virgin. That is what makes pedophiles.

It's not just 'getting laid', it's how and who with. Nothing is wrong with getting laid in marriage in this house, or even if you are engaged and due to get married shortly and everything is settled is a borderline on here. But to go and actually pay a prostitute/escort, or to meet an anonymous stranger (a jaded air-head girl who will sleep with anyone) from the internet to have sex possibly in a car, public washroom for a quickie is something of an entirely different matter here.

 

[LA_Chico]

So bro, your calling girls a "jaded air-head girl who will sleep with anyone" from the internet, yet you put an ad so you can be a "jadead air-head guy who will sleep with anyone"

 

[Luke Skywalker]

So bro, your calling girls a "jaded air-head girl who will sleep with anyone" from the internet, yet you put an ad so you can be a "jadead air-head guy who will sleep with anyone"

What the heck is your point? I have an S.O.S. ad, the problem is intelligent guys like me who analyze things too much dont get laid and dont like the games bull-sh1t of faking relationships and dumping women so we have to write ads that are direct and to the point, and find that far more honourable because nobody is being used. People who want to emotionally use people for sex and go to the next girl can do it their way. But, this ad concept a ZERO GAME concept, forget the dating BS and straight to business one time.

However, I'm not into that. It died on November 30, 2006. Maybe it will come alive again, but now it's dead. The idea is dead now. I've found someone and dont need to go into this casual sex protest any further.

I've attracted different types of women with that ad, none that my mom would be comfortable with though.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I'm seeing someone, or dating someone now, this is the second time I've seen her, and intend to see her a third time in a couple of weeks. She's 22 y/o, and is aware of my set-up and still wants to go out with me, and I would like to see where it goes. She seems to be a really intelligent, decent, cultured and spiritual girl and I'm just hoping that it doesn't crash and burn, or I get friendzoned and it actually goes somewhere this time.

I'll update everyone on the progress of this on this thread.

At my work, I got turned down asking out a girl and think I'm just friendzoned, and there's a social wedge between the secretaries so it doesn't seem to be going anywhere.

There is this one HB8 secretary from Cambodia, and she's like super-hot, very flirtatious, but complains that I'm too shy for her, and I dont know what to do. I feel I've fixed myself in her mind as a shy person.

But I'm going out with this girl, so let's keep things nice and simple and go one girl at a time, right?

 

[ryannath]

I say get laid by any decent chick that looks attractive and then you can have higher standards Luke.

 

[skip2mylou1984]

Luke, this is not only pathetic, but this is absolute troll-ism.

I talked to Player Supreme on his forum, he told me about a classic internet troll named “Starman” or something, and when I told him about u, he INSTANTLY told me that you are Starman, as that guy was known to make up **** online just for the hell of it, and the more ridiculous, the better. Luke, your situation is unreal to the point that its fake. You have been a troll the whole time and have fooled everyone into thinking you are serious. You had SO MANY PEOPLE give u advice and tell u what to do for 7 months now, and according to your posts, you have done NOTHING. IF you don’t want to get laid, why the hell are u on sosuave?? OH I KNOW WHY – cuz ur a fake just ****ing around with everyone!

There is absolutely no way that any 30 year old man would say “if I have sex, it would break my mother’s heart”……….riiiiiiiiiiiight.

Luke, you are the fakest of the fake, your are the internet’s biggest troll, and it was confirmed to be by Player Supreme, so stop being a fake ass and don’t come back to sosuave again.

 

[azanon]

Seems trollish to me too; especially with him having 879 posts.

 

[spider_007]

I love this forum....the drama never stops.....

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Luke, this is not only pathetic, but this is absolute troll-ism.

I talked to Player Supreme on his forum, he told me about a classic internet troll named “Starman” or something, and when I told him about u, he INSTANTLY told me that you are Starman, as that guy was known to make up **** online just for the hell of it, and the more ridiculous, the better. Luke, your situation is unreal to the point that its fake. You have been a troll the whole time and have fooled everyone into thinking you are serious. You had SO MANY PEOPLE give u advice and tell u what to do for 7 months now, and according to your posts, you have done NOTHING. IF you don’t want to get laid, why the hell are u on sosuave?? OH I KNOW WHY – cuz ur a fake just ****ing around with everyone!

There is absolutely no way that any 30 year old man would say “if I have sex, it would break my mother’s heart”……….riiiiiiiiiiiight.

Luke, you are the fakest of the fake, your are the internet’s biggest troll, and it was confirmed to be by Player Supreme, so stop being a fake ass and don’t come back to sosuave again.

What are you ****ing nuts?

You think someone as pathetic as Luke can be fake? It would take alot of skill to be in character like this and post the same **** over and over.

900 posts of exactly the SAME PERSON.


I don't know of a troll job that can be THAT consitent. He has to be telling the truth.

 

[mexican_player2]

i found a video of luke with his homie

http://youtube.com/watch?v=tInDoo1Tr8c