"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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so I have a girlfriend and I just found out she has been flirting/ or wants to cheat on me with another guy. I was snooping through her fb messages and he told her to come see him this Friday and to wear something sexy.and she agreed to. then he told her to text him and gave her his number,

my plan is to have her give me a blow job today and take a picture of it and send it to him and tell him "shes yours" and then dump this b*tch. can she press charges against me? is there a law that's says you cant take pictures of someone and send it to other people?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Capt.America said:
my plan is to have her give me a blow job today and take a picture of it and send it to him and tell him "shes yours" and then dump this b*tch. can she press charges against me? is there a law that's says you cant take pictures of someone and send it to other people?
This is straight hoe sh*t and very unmackish. What you need to do is forget about this broad and find you a more better b*tch.
 

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Not sure about that. Why not tell her its over, and don't tell her why. Then go enjoy your life. Her hamster will run its self to death, and you will crush her ego.
 

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instead of doing that, just send the picture to her parents. far more effective.
 

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noobolgy said:
Not sure about that. Why not tell her its over, and don't tell her why. Then go enjoy your life. Her hamster will run its self to death, and you will crush her ego.
It's true. While I think your idea is funny, it will just be a short-term crushing embarrassment. Going full no contact immediately and forever without notice will f*ck her up for a long time. As a bonus, there will be no legal or moral ramifications to worry about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I often find that revenge is a dish best served cold. The best payback is the one that comes with planning and brings the most horrendous pain to her when she is not expecting it. However, I wouldn't suggest revenge now. Three best thing to do is to dump her and don't initiate any form of contact with her after that. Don't even explain the reason for dumping her. Her mind will be forever rattled beyond belief.
 
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Maximus Rex said:
This is straight hoe sh*t and very unmackish. What you need to do is forget about this broad and find you a more better b*tch.
I like this idea.
 

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If you're hurt enough that you're wanting revenge, the best revenge is getting over your own hurt feelings and moving on.
 

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DonGorgon said:
don't do all the pic taking and sending just F her good and the dump her hard with no explanation..
Yup, best thing, f*ck her brains out, give her the best evening she could imagine. Then act like nothing's wrong, if she leaves your house go ghost for good and don't look back.

:up: Her hamster will go nutz
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm with ya OP, send it to her parents too

make sure she can't prove it's you beyond a reasonable doubt(block your number?).

also, check your local laws, revenge ain't worth a felony

a misdemeanor on the other hand...
 

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She needs to be taught a lesson so she (and all her friends) can learn from it. Yes, going NC and moving on is the sensible option, BUT come on, we all know how this feels don't we ?? Hit the b1tch where it hurts. OP, screw her over and then go COMPLETE NC. She needs to be taught that this kind of behaviour is not acceptable. If all men took this attitude then non of them would even dream of cheating, EVER.

I'm for sending her parents the pictures. Just buy a cheap new SIM card and use that if you have to.
 

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What's with you guys who suggest sending pictures to her parents? That's one of the sickest things I've ever heard.

If I had a daughter and someone did that, I would find them and have them beaten to within an inch of their lives.

Her parents have nothing to do with the situation and shouldn't be dragged into it. Be a man of integrity... Break up with no emotion, no explanation, and go ghost.
 

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Capt.America said:
so I have a girlfriend and I just found out she has been flirting/ or wants to cheat on me with another guy. I was snooping through her fb messages and he told her to come see him this Friday and to wear something sexy.and she agreed to. then he told her to text him and gave her his number,

my plan is to have her give me a blow job today and take a picture of it and send it to him and tell him "shes yours" and then dump this b*tch. can she press charges against me? is there a law that's says you cant take pictures of someone and send it to other people?
why bother?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Capt.America said:
so I have a girlfriend and I just found out she has been flirting/ or wants to cheat on me with another guy. I was snooping through her fb messages and he told her to come see him this Friday and to wear something sexy.and she agreed to. then he told her to text him and gave her his number,

my plan is to have her give me a blow job today and take a picture of it and send it to him and tell him "shes yours" and then dump this b*tch. can she press charges against me? is there a law that's says you cant take pictures of someone and send it to other people?

NOOOOO!

better idea. make her give you a BJ, take pic and send it to me :D i will take good care of it i promise :woo:

but srsly: it is always a good idea to have compromising pics of your females. gives you an edge. so take them pix, dump her, go ghost and basically do what the guys here say.
 

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too much work for someone who is not worthy disapearing is far more usefull for you, but from what I remember most country do have laws against pics taken and used without the person consent so yeah she can press charges, and unless you take the pic without her knowing she will link the dots.

so again save your mind, your time, just **** her and disapear

@atom even though her parents are not to blame for she being a ***** they are still responsable for how they raise her, is not a wonder then **** people have **** parents most of the cases.
 

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Alvafe said:
too much work for someone who is not worthy disapearing is far more usefull for you, but from what I remember most country do have laws against pics taken and used without the person consent so yeah she can press charges, and unless you take the pic without her knowing she will link the dots.

so again save your mind, your time, just **** her and disapear

@atom even though her parents are not to blame for she being a ***** they are still responsable for how they raise her, is not a wonder then **** people have **** parents most of the cases.
An authentic man who has his act together does not lower himself to the level of his adversaries, and certainly doesn't look for revenge by sending pornographic pictures to a girl's parents.

Doing so is beneath the DJ mindset and to most of us here who DO have their act together is a reprehensible thought.

There are many people who have risen above a crappy upbringing and made themselves into decent people by sheer force of will, though it is much more difficult and rare for women to do so.

Seriously, I find this idea so outlandish and sick that if anyone were to do this to someone in my family, they would most assuredly be spending the rest of their lives in a wheelchair.

Men come here to learn to become MEN and to handle their business with integrity. Make no mistake, I am 100% in favor of SEVERELY punishing women for their crappy behavior, and I do mean severely; raining down massive pain when the situation calls for it. This is consistent with what men have to deal with today and is in fact necessary, and it is for the ultimate benefit of women, just as punishing a child is for his or her benefit. It also sets a standard of self-respect for the man.

Doing some of the things outlined in this thread does nothing but debase the man behind it and erode his own self-respect, and often this is entirely beyond his perception until much later in life when he is faced with severe, painful regret and with great difficulty in correcting that which he cultivated within himself long ago.

Guys, you are better than that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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