"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can sex for a woman be very good without an orgasm?

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AJ84

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Just skimmed the thread so this may have already been covered but some women, due to upbringing, past experiences etc are not comfortable getting off with someone and/or by themselves. If she doesn't tell the guy this then he will assume it's him when it's not.
If she does tell the guy, he can then decide if he wants to help her 'open up' and like sex. If he doesn't want to do that then he can move onto a woman who isn't closed off. It takes a certain kind of guy to have the selfless patience needed to bring out the sexual awareness in a shy girl and not every guy wants to do that understandably.

Now for women who are not closed off sexually, we usually know when the orgasm isn't happening because of us not having our head in the game (due to stress, being tired etc etc) or because the sex just sucks
But women should always own it if it's on their end and not because the guy is doing it wrong. And if it's the guy, there are ways to address it without coming off like a cold hearted b*tch.

I'm sure you guys have had girls do stuff that was off and you needed to do a bit of guidance to get them set on a better path lol.

And many many women don't have regular orgasms through PIV sex, but that doesn't necessarily mean it doesn't feel good.

There's also tongue stuff, just putting that out there. Many women can only orgasm that way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lizardking82 said:
I know cases where the woman has her own mentaly psyche that no matter how good the sex is, she will not reach orgasm. Or something very specific has to happen for her to reach an orgasm, something not usual that not even she maybe knows what it is. I know it is not a simple topic, that is why I am asking and would like to discuss it.

And I totally get what you're saying, in most cases I have personally not had any "problems" with this part. It is one of the things I enjoy the most about having sex, seeing her be pleasured is what pleasures me and my ego. And yes, I also agree that if she has had no problem having orgasms before and you're not giving her one, it will eventually be a problem.

However, there are women who literally don't know how to have an orgasm, they have not had one before, they are too emotionally turned off and scared to let themselves be free enough to have one, etc.
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tbh its hard to make fatties c*um. i think they are too uncomfortable and depressed overall to *** easily
 
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