"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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can seeing 3 plates in 1 day backfire on me?

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fellas -- like the title says, can seeing 3 plates in 1 day backfire on me? it's going to be at least 3 plates, and we'll be one-on-one. i'm wondering if there's anything i should be weary off?

i'm trying to get them all going around the same location but at different times. so i won't have to travel so much.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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xectxny19x said:
fellas -- like the title says, can seeing 3 plates in 1 day backfire on me? it's going to be at least 3 plates, and we'll be one-on-one. i'm wondering if there's anything i should be weary off?

i'm trying to get them all going around the same location but at different times. so i won't have to travel so much.
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how is your confidence level right now and how are you feeling?
 
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Dude its not a good idea, always play as safe as you can.I think this is a big risk. But you might pull this off. If you do let us know how you did,haha.
 
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and trust me on this..these guys know ive been busted 4 times in the last two weeks by a different plate with a different plate.

dont do it unless you wanna see the quickest way to get dumped on yo ass by 3 women, if they all spot you with another.lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It has the potential to backfire on you. I'm not saying it will, but it could...

What if one wants a longer date? Or she starts to escalate?
 
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verysuave said:
how is your confidence level right now and how are you feeling?
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Hes feeling overly confident and ****y.
 
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What the hell is with the whole "plate" thing going on in this thread?

I know the whole idea behind it, but is it unnecessary to write out the five letter word "plate" instead of just "girl"?
 
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For some reason, this reminds me of that episode of the Flintstones where Fred wanted to go bowling but he had to be at a fancy party as well...hillarity ensued.

Moral of the story unless you have enough time and space between the three do not do it. Remember the Poonagrathom theory where D x T = P. Where P stands for pvssy.
 
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Vice said:
What the hell is with the whole "plate" thing going on in this thread?

I know the whole idea behind it, but is it unnecessary to write out the five letter word "plate" instead of just "girl"?
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I agree. "you better have other plates to spin." "I'm spinning two plates at the moment." *shakes head* :down:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vice said:
What the hell is with the whole "plate" thing going on in this thread?
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What's the difference in using dinner and evening feast? They imply different things, as does 'plates' imply having more than one 'girl' at any giving time.

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can seeing 3 plates in 1 day backfire on me?
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Well it can if you're an idiot. Giving you the benefit of the doubt, you'll be fine so as long as you're sure to space the 'dates' out evenly. And if you plan on sleeping with one, for goodness sakes make sure you shower before your next appointment.
 
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What are you nuts?! can't you set up 1 date=1 day at a time??

I mean what are you trying to accomplish on the date? to increase one woman's interest level while moving on to the next within a given time period???!!

Call the other two girls you are less interested in and change the days with them. This way the top plate is all set and ready to go and you won't have to worry about the other two, you will enjoy the date without feeling rushed and can fvck close her while calling it a day.
 
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What are you nuts?! can't you set up 1 date=1 day at a time??

I mean what are you trying to accomplish on the date? to increase one woman's interest level while moving on to the next within a given time period???!!

Call the other two girls you are less interested in and change the days with them. This way the top plate is all set and ready to go and you won't have to worry about the other two, you will enjoy the date without feeling rushed and can fvck close her while calling it a day.
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Excellent points Damage. Setting up 3 dates doesn't allow you the opportunity to f close any of them really except the last girl. It shows the kids mentality. He's not ready to take them to the next level but he's trying ot make himself feel like a god because he can get multiple dates but what good are multiple dates if your not fvcking them?
 
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i don't want to space them out. :cuss: i'm trying to prioritize my time better. right now, i'm thinking about meeting new girls 1x every week. and the rest of the week, i spend time studying, working, friends & my hobbies which don't and will not include any "girls." they'll just ruin it.

i haven't arranged 3 dates in one day in a long time. last time, i did it... i was safe. date 1 actually took the metro with me where i got off to meet my 2nd date at "hooters." she was cool w/ it. my date at "hooters" also knew of date #3, b/c i told her i would be leaving at 8 to meet someone. and she just asked "hot date?"

date #3 was my #1 girl. i was with her until 3am. :D she was actually my oneitis at the time, & i had to see other girls, b/c i knew i had it for her bad. so i just don't want to get into that again which is why i'm trying to prioritize my time around more important things like studying and seeing more girls, when it's my "date day." i really just want to find 1 quality girl... thus the many dates.

at the same time, i'm scared it's going to backfire on me... reputation-wise, b/c i've heard stories from other guys, but then i don't swear my love or anything to the girls. they do know i'm seeing other people. i just don't know how they'll react, if they were to actually bump into each other while i was on a date with one. knowing is one thing... but actually seeing? :nervous:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So how did it go? Did you manage to do 3-plates in a day?

Remember, even the best Chef's only have two hands, two plates at once is the LIMIT! J/k :)
 
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Seems like too much work. I'd just plan out different days for each once.
 
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