"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Can Rich Parents Land You a Woman??

Fo_Sho

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Hey do you guys think having rich parents helps a dude in the dating world? I know guys who land gorgeous women because they drive super fancy cars and live in nice homes (that Mom and Dad buy for them, btw). I remember this one girl going ga ga over her boyfriend's father's corporate jet. Sheeeesh

I also want to point out that a lot of these guys are unbelievably lazy and ****y. It kills me to see these guys land women because Mommy and Daddy pay for all the $hit that they flaunt.

On the other hand, I had to bust my tail in school and now at work to bring bacon home. My parents gave me plenty of discipline but nothing in the way of material goods. Now I have a great job but loads of debt so I can't go splurging by any means. Do lazy, ****y guys with the silver spoons in their mouths stand a better chance in the dating world than myself and other modest, hard working, genuine guys (I'm sure there's plenty of you guys on this board). Women seem like they want to be pampered like crazy (and oddly enough still want to be CEO's) so does the fact that I come from a meager background drop me a few notches in attracting women compared to the spoiled frat boys? Thanks for your help, guys!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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California Love

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Purely having money will only land you women that are pretty low on the gene tree.

Having a strong education and a stable job will earn you much more respect and much better women.


PS - People who are granted everything at birth often have severe problems in the future ranging from communication, respect and sociability to maintaining that money. Being spoiled hinders the development of survival skills.
 
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Every woman I approached never saw my car or home - I don't carry them around with me!!:rolleyes:
 

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bleh bleh bleh who cares what is the point of knowing this question. It ain't gonna help anyone. It ain't results oriented toward what this site is about.

Yes money alone will get you gold diggers that would drop you if you didn't have money. That's obvious. As we all know that most of us if we met a semi-attrative girl that had billions and got to fly her corporate jet to tahiti on the weekends that she was courting you to do, what do you think you'd say?
 

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Yes.

Connections, social circles, networking, access to exclusive clubs, access to exclusive colleges, clothes, material goods, general affluence, hired help, power, real estate, etc.

I'm not going to give you AFC platitudes like money doesn't matter, looks doesn't matter, and big cocks don't matter. That the only thing that women want is your inner sensitive, bunny rabbit child self. In real life, real shit matters. Deal with it.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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