"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can people under 20 go to the high school forum?

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betterthandead

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what the **** is with this myspace facebook bull**** chat session reports.

who cares about the flirt action that goes on in high school classes.

Durrr durrr, she was giving me EYE CONTACT durrrr durrr and I like to touch girls on the first time I meet her cause I wanna get with her, durrrrrr. Girls mean everything to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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betterthandead said:
what the **** is with this myspace facebook bull**** chat session reports.

who cares about the flirt action that goes on in high school classes.

Durrr durrr, she was giving me EYE CONTACT durrrr durrr and I like to touch girls on the first time I meet her cause I wanna get with her, durrrrrr. Girls mean everything to me.

This forum has turned to sh!t. It's worse than Ivillage.
 

goodfoot

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I have a lot of friends who have moved all over the country so Facebook helps me keep in touch with them. It seems like everyone has Myspace but I don't. I wouldn't try to pick up girls on it, but it probably can be done, right?
 

IsiMan84

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I don't think you read his post correctly but he's telling people under 20 to go to the HS forum because of threads where people ask stupid questions or post their Facebook or MySpace chat sessions and other crap that should be discussed among people that age. I believe he was just using it as an example in that case.

I do agree a multitude of threads in the main forum seem to be about that junk though, and a lot of questions asked by teenagers that should stay in that forum. I'm 25 and have both Facebook and MySpace, but if I needed to ask some other guys what it meant if a girl said something to me on one of them then I am beyond help.
 

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We do try to separate obvious HS threads from regular ones, but it's hard to see everything. There are some 20+ yr olds who still think it's cool to use myspace and facebook for dating and flirting. Personally, I'm not a fan of using either of those sites for dating, but who am I to say what others should do.

You guys--everybody--has responsibility to keep the board clean, you know.

If you see a thread/post that shouldn't be where it is--or shouldn't BE at all--then click the Report Post button at the bottom left corner of every post, and it'll get taken care of in good time.

Saying the board has gone to **** is like littering on the sidewalk and saying "The streets are filthy". Mods can't read every post and thread here so we only really skim off the obvious garbage, if YOU notice a thread or post that doesn't belong, report it.

cheers guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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