"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can Not Find A Job!

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Well those who've read my last post know that I have several months before I leave for the Air Force. Well I need to find a job so I can buy a car and have money to spend. But I seriously cant find a daMN job around here. I really dont want to do fast food either. This is bull****.:mad:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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not one around here
man I applied to ****in Target,Kohls,chucky cheeses,papa johns, as well as a few places. I was workin at Lowes as a truck unloader for $8.51/hr but I quit once school was over thinking I'd be leaving soon for the Air Force. I had a job in retail for a year and on the appilcations I put that I could work anytime but Target & Kohls still didnt call-they even had big Now Hiring Signs up. WTF?
 

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I feel your pain brother. I was in the same situation a year and a half ago. I aplied to like 20 places and only got a job due to knowing someone working in that place. That made me realize how important connections are when it comes to getting jobs sometimes.
 

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twotyme said:
Well those who've read my last post know that I have several months before I leave for the Air Force. Well I need to find a job so I can buy a car and have money to spend. But I seriously cant find a daMN job around here. I really dont want to do fast food either. This is bull****.:mad:
What type of job experience do you have?

If none or very little, you're going to have to start where pretty much every does, in the Fast Food or Restaraunt industry.

Hell, Construction laborers (non-union) are getting up to $15.00 per hour around here (SF Bay Area) and they mostly just are go-fers who do the heavy lifting and grunt work for the skilled tradesman.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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twotyme

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Ive worked at Kmart for a year.
Sheetz for 3 months.
Lowes for about 3months.
But daMN kmart is like the same ****in thing as Target so I really don't get why they didn't even call me.
Does calling the place after you turn in your application help any??
 

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twotyme said:
Ive worked at Kmart for a year.
Sheetz for 3 months.
Lowes for about 3months.
But daMN kmart is like the same ****in thing as Target so I really don't get why they didn't even call me.
Does calling the place after you turn in your application help any??
If you're jumping from job to job every 3 months, you're going to be tough to hire.

If you're an employer, would you spend time and money training someone with that kind of track record?
 

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So if you dont list a place you've worked at will they find it on like a background check or something?
 

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Most likely, an employer will check with the Employment Dept. to see where you worked, how long, wages etc...

They will also check for criminal record, and some employers won't hire you if you have a bad credit history.

Then there's the drug testing...
 

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So if I don't list all the places I've worked they'll find out anyways? Any tips that may help me out in finding a job? So how about calling a few days after I apply?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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heres what got me a job once...
when i filled out the application i asked to speak to the manager.
i put the application in his hand and said "i can start right now, im dressed and ready."

if you put the application in a managers hand, you have a chance to talk to them personally and show them you are ready to work. if you turn it in to whomever is behind the counter, it might take days to get looked at.

if you are dressed in whatever that place wears and they are that short handed they might use you, or at least run your background check that day.

be honest, i was working at lowes and liked it and i joined the military. i left thinking i was leaving for bootcamp on a particular date, i didnt want to leave them shorthanded , however my bootcamp date was set back. if i would have know this, i would have stayed at lowes. i dont like to change jobs when i have a good one. i am suppose to leave on x day and if you put me to work in the mean time, i promise to give you a written two week notice before i leave so that you wont be short handed.



my cousin worked at chucke cheese. he dressed as the mouse and came out and made the kids happy. tell them you would love to dress up and act silly. sure the suit is hot but you take it off in between sets and the pizza rocks.
a job is a job!
 

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dude, It's just like with women.....a numbers game

I applied to over 25 jobs when the summer started. Getting a job is a job in itself, it requires persistance. Right now I got 2 part time jobs and when I told them how many places I applied to their jaws dropped. Make an appointment to fill out 5 applications a day. After about a week you should get at least 1 job calling you back.
 

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Yea I've been appliying to pretty much every place I can think of around here(except fast food).
I just applied at the Charles Town Races and Quadgraphics. PLus I've been filling out applications to a ****load of places online. My goal right now is to have a job by the end of the week.
 
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