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Can non-virgin girls bleed?

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Hi guys,

I had sex with my girlfriend who's 26 years old. She was pretty tight to get into and once we finished she had some major cramps, soreness, she said it burned when she went pee, and she said she had a little bleeding.

I don't believe she's a virgin so my question is, have you ever heard of a girl bleeding even if shes a non virgin?

thanks guys
 

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Does she have endometriosis? I had a GF with that problem and she had similar symptoms.
 

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no she doesnt have that as far as i believe....

we've had sex about 5 times more since this inital incident and things have been much better. She is enjoying it more..and its a little easier for me to get in now. I just was suprised that the first time i really was able to get in her...she bled and had soreness down there...thats what i'm curious about
 

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Yeah it happens. If you have a big-ish unit it'll happen a lot if you're not careful.
 

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I once had sex with a girl who "came on" to her period mid session. Blood everywhere.
 

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If you have a big-ish unit it'll happen a lot if you're not careful.

Agreed. Over time, she will stretch to fit, which is what is happening:

we've had sex about 5 times more since this inital incident and things have been much better. She is enjoying it more..and its a little easier for me to get in now.
 

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good question ....

i had this one chick before tell me that she had had sex previously and when we slept together it was so tight i didn't think my **** would fit inside, but after breaking her in a little bit (i was practically feeling sorry for her) it was ok for me. when i finished up i looked at the bedsheet and she was like "oops"....a pool of blood had appeared. was she a virgin? had she lied? it remains a mystery

but you and me are different, you have your virgins and i have my messed up crack-*****s so theres no telling what it is
 

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I had this girl that would bleed ever now and then, she told me it was her birth control causing it. Lots of different reasons it can happen other than losing virginity.
 

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thanks guys...the feedback has helped alot in understanding why she did bleed. hopefully once her body gets used to it, the bleeding and soreness will stop and she can enjoy the experience.
 

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no problem and remember: don't ever rule out any possibility unless you know when to do so
 

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It sounds like you didn't give her enough time to get lubricated. She just needed more time to get ready. You could also try some lube.
 
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VictorK said:
Can non-virgin girls bleed?
Sure, just put a knife in her throat and you'll see:rolleyes:
 
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