"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Can my friends come too?"

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So I'm kinda wondering if this may be a test. I asked this girl if she would join me and my friends friday night when we all go out. Now the original idea is because it's my friends' anniversary so they asked me if I wanted to go out with them but obviously with a date. So I asked this girl if she was interested and she said yes (well, I just asked if she wanted to go out with me and my friends, guess I should have specified). But now she asked me if its ok if she brings a couple of her friends. Which would be perfect if these friends were a couple too....

So what would you guys say? I'm thinking of telling her "yes its fine, but are they a couple by any chance?" or something along those lines. Something better to say in this situation? Oh and she texted me this, so luckily I get a bit of extra time to think lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just so suave

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Don't bring her and HER friends, to YOUR friends anniversary celebration, its rude to your buddies as they asked you to join them to what sounds like a formal event...you'd be turning it into a social gathering you turned up with a bunch of strangers. Just explain to her what the occasion is, and say its best just to come on her own.
 
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