Can looks be corrected with confidence

[skinnyguy]

Let's say there is a guy who is ugly by most standards but he is confident and not desperate. Will this help his game?

I'm starting to think yes. Women can pick up on your desperation and if you aren't they might be more into you, especially if you have a hobby you are really good at.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Yes

 

[adam225]

Confidence + Charisma = Win, win

Women respond to how you make them feel. Looks actually play only a small part. They aren't like us in that respect.

 

[JoeMarron]

Yes, this topic has been addressed a billion times already. Confidence/game/charisma/alphaness/whatever you wanna call it will lead to more success with women than anything else. There's ugly mofo's, broke ass dudes, dudes with missing limbs, and a host of other disadvantaged men having success with women yet people still want to doubt game. Women like men that can make them feel good. Game is the most effective way to do that.

Women respond to how you make them feel. Looks actually play only a small part. They aren't like us in that respect.

Somebody post this in big bold letters on the goddamn home page of this forum.

 

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isn't this like fundamental to game? game 101 - confidence=win win.

 

[GotED?]

This is a tough call - would you as a man, think a Fattie5.5 is going to change into a HB 6.5 just because she is 'confident'??

Women call men who approached that look fugly to her as a 'creep'. Granted, women are slightly more forgiving in a man's looks, but are still shallow b!tches if you expect to keep her in the long run.

I think a man must come to realize and ACCEPT what level of attractiveness in a woman he can pull CONSISTENTLY. If you keep failing, then accept you are not good looking enough and lower your standards. There are lots of fantasy talk amonst nerds here trying to brainwash the realistic with idealistic that other things are going to replace looks.

Rarely unless you are famous, rich, or LUCKY (being at the right place at the right time), you are going to have to accept Darwinism and survival of the hottest wins.

Lastly, for an effective and longer lasting LTR - look beyond sex and looks, and get to know the woman more so you don't waste your time in life.


Be well

Exodus

 

[Dan08]

Yes. You have just described having inner game.

If you know you're the prize and act like it then regardless of your looks or what others think of your looks you're gonna be happy within yourself and that's going to be hella attractive to most girls.

 

[TheGambino]

Just be on top of your game and looks. Go to the gym eat clean, dress slim fit stylish clothes get a nice haircut smell good and be confident, on top of your game. Thats ultimate

 

[Ambitious Player]

Going to take a different approach here. When you are in the much younger crowd (teens and early to mid 20s) it seems like women do place more value on looks than anything else. I have found that as my looks have managed to get better overtime I am having more success with girls in the younger group. From my own experience it feels like younger women value physical appearance more while older women tend to value confidence and what you have to say.