Can it ever go too far?

[oscarxp25]

My friend Ken and I both vowed to change our lives by coming on to this site. We have been both successful to say the least. Ken though seems to have changed his entire view on women. I have to, but he seems to get pleasure on using girls and seeing them hurt. Mind you, in high school he was shy boy who was very guillible with love. He got his heart broken by a girl who rejected him when he needed love the most. (his dad past away)

Just like anything in excess..can all of this go to far? Should I try to tell him to calm it down a bit?

 

[DonJuan11]

My friend Ken and I both vowed to change our lives by coming on to this site. We have been both successful to say the least. Ken though seems to have changed his entire view on women. I have to, but he seems to get pleasure on using girls and seeing them hurt.

Using girls and hurting them is not called a success, it's called being insecure and having low self esteem. Ken might be reading this site but its not registering in his brain.

I hope you're not like him.

 

[D_Master]

sounds ke it might have gone too far already. There is a difference between being good w/ women and being good w/ women to get off on your own ego. I know now how this site can ruin you. Not that I'm hurting people, but I continue to want to chase and not settle down, even though I have an opportunity w/ a good girl. So yes it can go to far if you dont catch yourself.

 

[The Deacon]

Yeah, it can. It depends on what you want, though. If the only thing you want is action, the sad thing is you don't really need to care about the girl's feelings. If the girl's attracted to you and you know exactly what to do to keep her, you'll realize you don't even need to be nice to her. Some girls, though, will dump you if you treat them bad. Those kind of women, however, are very rare. If they're attracted to you, they'll do anything to stay with you.

It's really bad that your friend gets off on treating women like garbage. The sad thing is, though, is that I know where he's coming from. I've always had sick fantasies where I'd break a girl's heart, even a completely innocent one, just so I can feel like I'm in control of something. I've never acted on them, though.

 

[Tear Gas]

Your friend sounds exactly like me. I know it sounds demonic or maybe a bit psychotic, but i enjoy stringing girls along making them think that i really like them as a person, and not just for the sex, but after i **** them, i go very cold on them, and i get off seeing them hurt. Sometimes i get excited when i make a hot girl cry or hate me, when deep down she really wants to suck my pole and let me *** on her face. To be honest, i hate women, but enjoy ****ing them..if that makes any sense. I wasn't always like this, my thoughts on women seemed to change over the years after witnessing the way they treat men, especially at clubs, and how mean they are to guys that they're not interested. I like to think of myself as the "savior" to all the guys that were treated bad by women, but couldnt do anything about it..it's payback time for all those guy's hearts you broke, and im gonna make you feel their pain. I don't think i can ever get into a serious relationship with a girl. I told this to my friend, and he said i need professional help.

 

[DonJuan11]

Your friend sounds exactly like me. I know it sounds demonic or maybe a bit psychotic, but i enjoy stringing girls along making them think that i really like them as a person, and not just for the sex, but after i **** them, i go very cold on them, and i get off seeing them hurt. Sometimes i get excited when i make a hot girl cry or hate me, when deep down she really wants to suck my pole and let me *** on her face. To be honest, i hate women, but enjoy ****ing them..if that makes any sense. I wasn't always like this, my thoughts on women seemed to change over the years after witnessing the way they treat men, especially at clubs, and how mean they are to guys that they're not interested. I like to think of myself as the "savior" to all the guys that were treated bad by women, but couldnt do anything about it..it's payback time for all those guy's hearts you broke, and im gonna make you feel their pain. I don't think i can ever get into a serious relationship with a girl. I told this to my friend, and he said i need professional help.

Dude I hear exactly what you are saying because I'm the same way. I'm not as cruel and cold to them as you seem to be but I like stringing them along and bringing their hopes up. You told me off in high school? Time to get back at you!

I went out with this hot girl (that 5 of my friends were after) a few times and the 2nd time she made a move on me and kissed me in my car...and her face turned red! I couldn't believe hot girls get embarrassed or had emotions! It was so beautiful and I was happy she was so embarrassed.

 

[Bonhomme]

I wasn't always like this, my thoughts on women seemed to change over the years after witnessing the way they treat men, especially at clubs, and how mean they are to guys that they're not interested. I like to think of myself as the "savior" to all the guys that were treated bad by women, but couldnt do anything about it..it's payback time for all those guy's hearts you broke, and im gonna make you feel their pain. I don't think i can ever get into a serious relationship with a girl. I told this to my friend, and he said i need professional help.

Well, thing is not all "hot" gals are that nasty to guys. To do that is like any other kind of profiling or stereotyping. Best to give someone the benefit of the doubt, at least until evidence indicates otherwise...

 

[SharinganUser]

Tear Gas, I really hope you are joking. Because I think what you typed is really sick and demented. If that's the way you really are, then you are 1000x times worse than any of those women that rejected you.

 

[DonJuan11]

Tear Gas, I really hope you are joking. Because I think what you typed is really sick and demented. If that's the way you really are, then you are 1000x times worse than any of those women that rejected you.

He's probably not that extreme but he does have a point. How are all those guys in high school who got rejected because they were not 6'1 or looked like Brad Pitt supposed to feel?

In grade 12 I gave a girl I was in love with (she didn't know I existed) flowers and candy in front on 20 people after school on a Friday. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do but I did it and I'm still glad I did it. I was happy on the weekend and was so looking forward to her talking to me on Monday because I really was in love with her. She didn't say anything to me Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday the next week even though her locker was fairly close to mine. Friday after school, I gathering all my strength and went up to her and told her "Hi -----, how are you? I'm the one that gave those flowers and candy and my name is -----." Her response "So what? You can go somewhere"

Yes it was grade 12, yes I was young, yes girls are immature at that age, but still, she could have said "Thank you very much but unfortunately I have a bf or unfortunately I'm not interested". She told me where to go after I planned out my flower delievery for a month and embarrassed myself infront of the entire grade and I'm just supposed to take it? I don't think so.

 

[Tear Gas]

Tear Gas, I really hope you are joking. Because I think what you typed is really sick and demented. If that's the way you really are, then you are 1000x times worse than any of those women that rejected you.

no i'm not joking..it's not like i go around and say this to everyone, it's just my philosophy on things, and hasn't failed me once. Women that rejected me? I don't know what gave you that idea, probably trying to figure out why i think like this, but no, i don't remember the last time i've been rejected That's not my reason for being what i am today. I'm just sick of seeing how women treat poor guys that are so nice and sweet approaching women, only to be shut down with an unneccesary rejection. You hardly see a man reject a women so harshly these days, cause if they do, everyone would think he's gay. I don't like how women use men for money, gifts, dinners, etc only to payback by just letting him **** her..even then, it's a mutual thing. I think there's something wrong with the dating world these days, and i'm one of the few that notice it. Maybe if more guys treated women like me, we wouldn't have so many stuck up, lazy, spoiled, gold digger *****es that think their pus5y is god's gift to man (technically, it is, but you catch my drift) and can get anything they want by just spreading their legs. Plus, men would have MUCH more value these days, and women would respect us more. :rock:

 

[Chaotixxx]

Tear Gas, you're not the "savior" to all those guys whose hearts were broken by women, you're just turning more women into cynics who will be more likely to break guys' hearts. You're perpetuating the cycle, you're not helping anyone.

Exactly. Youre just making more guys go through that mess in the long run.

 

[KontrollerX]

Tear Gas only has the right idea if he's got evidence a certain chick whose heart he breaks has gone above and beyond the call of duty hurting some nice guy who only wanted a moment of her time.

If he's just doing this to random hot chicks who haven't proven to be either bad or good people then its a terrible thing to do.

I'm only for putting someone in their place when they clearly need to be knocked off their pedastal for all the sickening hurtful behaviour they've taken great joy in. Tear Gas is a hero if he's given pain back to bad women like this but to do it indescriminately to any hot chick just isn't right until she proves that she is a scumbag to people. Then its just giving her some of her own medicine.

Anyway in responding to the original poster I'll tell you this dude...

Your friend has some issues to work out.

He has to kill that inner AFC that isn't looking for a relationship but is looking for payback.

You have to explain to this man that its retarded for him to want to hurt new girls because...

1. They are not the girl that hurt him they are a seperate individual and he needs to understand he will never be able to get back at the girl who hurt him by taking out his pain on other girls. All that does is show to that girl that she won. She broke your friend down, killed his soul and turned him into something he's not. A bad guy. When posters here say the best revenge is living well they don't mean hurting women for your past pain is the way to go. They mean finding true fulfillment in life and your newfound passions and finding a good girl based on your new DJ filtering skills who will make you happy is the way to go and even if that girl leaves you since your life is now based on your passion its not the end of the world because chicks are now a nice addition to your life and not its sole focus.

2. They have taken interest in him so he shouldn't have anything against them.

Maybe you should not only tell him to calm down as you yourself suggested you could do but also ask him a great question from the movie American History X and that question is...

"Has anything you've done made your life better?"

Ask him this question in relation to hurting chicks who haven't done him any wrong.

 

[SharinganUser]

Tear Gas. You only think you have power. When really you are letting women as a whole affect your mindset. Take back your power and stop wasting time with women that are bad people. You are right that there is a lot of things wrong with the dating world, but you can't make them right, you'll just end up with a messiah complex and a long list of enemies.

You may not understand this, but sex is a celebration of life not something used as tool for revenge. Do you know what happens to guys that seak revenge? The hate eats away at their soul and they become an empty shell of a human being.

By treating women badly, you are only pushing them towards becoming mean, gold-digging b!tches. You are not making the respect you at all. As the other posters said, you are just making things worse for everyone.

I prefer to spend my time improving my life, not destroying others.

I hope you never meet a woman that does to you what you are doing to women.

 

[drak_ool]

great post KontrollerX! for a second i thought you would defend tear gas' point of view, but i like your balanced critic of his argument.

TearGas, if you pretend to bond with a girl on a deep emotional level just to get ass, then you re a low life, not a DJ. I had a friend who used to tell every girl he was trying to fvck that he loved her, that she was the one for him, then drop them after he banged them. To me, that just makes you a dyck.

i m not saying you can't "hit it and leave it", just saying lying to a girl about your feelings for her just to get in her pants makes you the worst kind of douchebag

seems like you re really bitter about CERTAIN girls, but you re not gonna get them back by being a dyck to random hot girls

 

[DonGorgon]

Humans use humans male and female is not the issue... females will hurt you without ant concern and they dont care that you are a man... Its a dog eat dog world so to get what you want you have to hurt some....

 

[Sandow]

Read The 48 Laws Of Power. He's Fine

 

[Sandow]

Humans use humans male and female is not the issue... females will hurt you without ant concern and they dont care that you are a man... Its a dog eat dog world so to get what you want you have to hurt some....

EXACTLY...

 

[ready123]

proof there are plenty of guys out there that are good with women who are still shtty human beings