"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Can I?

R

RiceandChicken

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
258
Reaction score
1
Location
N/A
I'm a little stumped here guys. I am wondering would be a desperate move to message a girl who I messaged more then a week ago but got no response. Before then she was talkin to me all the time. The message was rather long...(my bad). So I think she didn't bother reading it lol. But ya, would it be ok to send her a short message just to make sure we're on good terms?

That's all. I think I have a couple other questions bout other things I can't seem to figure out but I'll ask y'all if I can't figure it out my self. Thanks guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

K

Kbomb

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2012
Messages
340
Reaction score
15
Do not send a message. Its very obvious that you desperately want to talk to her. She and you are done, let it go and move on to the next one.
 
U

Uncharted

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 1, 2013
Messages
740
Reaction score
47
Location
Brooklyn, NY
Agreed. If you were talking all the time and she stopped, it's time for you to stop until she contacts you again. Or maybe never respond if you can pull it off.
 
P

Purefilth

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2012
Messages
2,749
Reaction score
73
Location
BEAST MODE [ON]
Sounds like an online girl.

If it is - NEXT.
If its not - rude, NEXT!
 
R

RiceandChicken

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
258
Reaction score
1
Location
N/A
I talk in RL with her all the time. Did so on Friday so ya.
I see. Kk. But y'all might bash me here, but I think I need some closure though. I'ma send a short what up message. She don't respond to that then NC completely.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top