"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can I trust you...?

Charlie_aus

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If a girl I am dating at work keeps asking if she can trust me (we dont want anyone at work to know) does anyone think their is something more to it?

The reason I ask is she keeps asking - I keep reassuring...

Also she is really keen, but I am making all the moves. Playing it cool - not desperate or anything - but I want her to make a move....

I know I am playing it cool because she asked me how many women I have on the go. Now what the heck was the best answer to that one. I told her that I a good selection of numbers.

The funny thing is with this chick no matter how cool I play it I seem to be making all the moves.

Well - anyone have any thoughts?

-Charlie
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FatBastard

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hmmm? have you ever played chess? do you know what it's like to be in checkmate? I didn't ask you a goddamn thing.
 

So pimp its scary

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Can I trust you? "No... I'm the guy that your parents warned you about."
 
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