"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can I trust you...?

Charlie_aus

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If a girl I am dating at work keeps asking if she can trust me (we dont want anyone at work to know) does anyone think their is something more to it?

The reason I ask is she keeps asking - I keep reassuring...

Also she is really keen, but I am making all the moves. Playing it cool - not desperate or anything - but I want her to make a move....

I know I am playing it cool because she asked me how many women I have on the go. Now what the heck was the best answer to that one. I told her that I a good selection of numbers.

The funny thing is with this chick no matter how cool I play it I seem to be making all the moves.

Well - anyone have any thoughts?

-Charlie
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FatBastard

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hmmm? have you ever played chess? do you know what it's like to be in checkmate? I didn't ask you a goddamn thing.
 

So pimp its scary

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Can I trust you? "No... I'm the guy that your parents warned you about."
 
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