"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can I trust her?

zack77766

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Well this girl I like is in college and Im in high school. She said herself she lies to her parents and she does get lots of attention from other guys. On her facebook her relationship status is complicated with another girl. Im afraid I might be dealing with a playette or something along the lines. But she does seem really interested in me and Im confusing her by not making a move yet. (I plan to make a move this week)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zack77766 said:
Well this girl I like is in college and Im in high school. She said herself she lies to her parents and she does get lots of attention from other guys. On her facebook her relationship status is complicated with another girl. Im afraid I might be dealing with a playette or something along the lines. But she does seem really interested in me and Im confusing her by not making a move yet. (I plan to make a move this week)
DO ITTTTT!!!!!
 

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So, can you trust her is what your asking? Well, her lying to her parents and getting alot of attention from other guys is nothing new. She is in a relationship with a girl too? If she is a lesbian your gonna get shot down. If she is bisexual you get a chance to fvck her and her friend if your game is right. Whats the problem here? Go for her and see what happens!
 

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Go after her but for god's sake man don't let your heart get involved with this one.

She is a liar and strings along tons of guys.

See if you can get a fvck or two or three out of her but in the meanwhile look for a girl you can trust who you can have a real relationship with since thats apparently what you want judging by your question.

To further answer your question I will say that your gut instinct will give you a feeling about a person on whether you can trust them or not.

Sometimes your mind will argue against your deep inner feeling telling you that you are just being paranoid and judgemental so then you ignore that feeling but in my experience it always comes back to bite you in the ass when you don't trust your gut feeling on a person or situation.

Good luck to you brother and again I say do not persue this one for anything more than a fvck unless your gut instinct tells you that you can trust her.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Go after her but for god's sake man don't let your heart get involved with this one.

She is a liar and strings along tons of guys.

See if you can get a fvck or two or three out of her but in the meanwhile look for a girl you can trust who you can have a real relationship with since thats apparently what you want judging by your question.

To further answer your question I will say that your gut instinct will give you a feeling about a person on whether you can trust them or not.

Sometimes your mind will argue against your deep inner feeling telling you that you are just being paranoid and judgemental so then you ignore that feeling but in my experience it always comes back to bite you in the ass when you don't trust your gut feeling on a person or situation.

Good luck to you brother and again I say do not persue this one for anything more than a fvck unless your gut instinct tells you that you can trust her.
I agree with you on this.

But, her lying and getting attention from other guys could mean the opposite. She lies to her parents - Not a big deal; who doesn't lie to their parents? She gets attention from alot of guys - She could be giving it up to all the guys or she just has guys that like her and she aint horing herself. Whatever the answer is the poster will have to decide whether she is a quality girl or not.

Also, bearing in mind she is bisexual. Most, bisexual woman arent exclusive in relationships so, don't expect her to remain loyal.

Conclusion: Go spit game at her and hit it! I would just hit it a few times and leave. Or stay around as a fvck buddy and have three-ways with her "girlfriend"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yo listen, why are you even considering relationship when your that young?(im asumming you are because you bought up trust)
your young,
you got a d1ck, and she got a ****, let them connect

and no you cannot trust her, and you cannot trust no one. you should know this by now. a female lies, they all lie. they all love attention but this one seems not to not be shy about it (red flag?)
shes in college, of course. cuz in college all they do is fuk fuk fuk and kill time.
yo, google college fuk fest and you'll get an idea. but anyways.
should you make a move? YES do it. but KEEP IN MIND. BY NO MEANS should you fall for this chick, she is not relationship material. because you dont know her well enough and the information you have presented us with tells us enough that shes not even close. so go tap that ass and brag to your buddies. straight up

keep us detailed
 
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