Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can I still get her number?

trans_am17

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This is about the new girl at my work who is interested in me. Problem is I waited to long to make a move and now after only a week she quit work. Would it be okay if I asked the co-worker who asked me if I thought the new girl was pretty for her number?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why are you asking if its "ok" to ask for a girls number in the first place....
 

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Originally posted by trans_am17
This is about the new girl at my work who is interested in me. Problem is I waited to long to make a move and now after only a week she quit work. Would it be okay if I asked the co-worker who asked me if I thought the new girl was pretty for her number?
You staled out. You ****ed up. Don't let it happen again.

What you have in mind probably wont get you where you want in the end, unless shes not the most attractive girl, but **** man, what have you got lose?
 

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Re: Re: Can I still get her number?

Originally posted by Sammo
but **** man, what have you got lose?
Thats a very good point.. Most people, including me, would have said don't do it, it would be stupid, you're too late. Which is probably likely, but what have you got to lose if you do it anyway?

Just don't mention where you got the number unless she asks, then just say you got it from work.
 
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